"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Met this HB 7 in gym, got talking flirting a bit.

Next time seen her she was with some dude there. Didn't let that fluster me, went over to talk when she was alone and got to the suggestion of training together sometime, went for the number close, she agreed, then gives me the bullsh*t line of 'i dont know my number..' i responded with 'huh? how do you not know your number??' then she gave me some crap about giving it to me next time.

i ended up leaving it with the line 'i guess you'll miss out then..' and i walk away.

been week and a bit and seen her today for first time, at first i just blanked and ignored her if i ever crossed the vicinity of where she was, not looking in her direction.

When she was closer to me i just said hey to her from a distance thats it and continued what i was doing.

She then comes over to me to chat and i think i made the mistake of being too flirty rather than acting uninterested and distant.

Was she just testing me to see if i was still interested?
cos the way i was acting prior to that was of someone who wasn't.

i kinda felt like maybe she was doing this more for herself out of guilt rather than anything else.

Long story short after about 2mins talk she was about to walk away so i just said see ya.

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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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game over. doesn't really matter what you do at this point.
 
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The other guy was her bf maybe. And she wasn't interested in you. We can't win them all. It was nothing you did wrong probably.
 
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drift king said:
fair play. where do you think the mistake was?
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Well based off that vague description of the situation, I would say you didn't make a mistake, she just wasn't interested.

But if I had to take a better guess, I'd say you didn't create any sort of attraction with her before you went in for the # close. If you work on improving one aspect of your game, work on improving rapport with a girl. It will get you faaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaarrr!!




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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

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thanks. i guess her coming up to me really meant nothing at all?
 
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