You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
good:kick:Dongfu said:Maybe the posters should be rated.
1. Dead on
2. Some of the time
3. So So
4. Total Dumba$$
5. Do not listen
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You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Tips.gasoline said:so were is it?
So what makes this any different than people who have religious, political, financial or cultural ideologies?Booblepook said:Rating a post or a poster means confirming to a particular way of doing things.. There isn't a single way of doing things in an art form, if there was, there'd be a book, paint like Michelangelo for dummies.
Besides, what makes any of you qualified to rate someone or their contribution?