"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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gasoline

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I'd suggest a rating system for sosuave articles that every one can rate them
just like amazon's.
what do you think?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Maybe the posters should be rated.

1. Dead on
2. Some of the time
3. So So
4. Total Dumba$$
5. Do not listen

JK :D
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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There's already a rating system.
 

gasoline

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Dongfu said:
Maybe the posters should be rated.

1. Dead on
2. Some of the time
3. So So
4. Total Dumba$$
5. Do not listen

JK :D
good:kick: :D
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Booblepook

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Rating a post or a poster means confirming to a particular way of doing things.. There isn't a single way of doing things in an art form, if there was, there'd be a book, paint like Michelangelo for dummies.


Besides, what makes any of you qualified to rate someone or their contribution?
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Booblepook said:
Rating a post or a poster means confirming to a particular way of doing things.. There isn't a single way of doing things in an art form, if there was, there'd be a book, paint like Michelangelo for dummies.


Besides, what makes any of you qualified to rate someone or their contribution?
So what makes this any different than people who have religious, political, financial or cultural ideologies? :whistle:
 
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