"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I'd suggest a rating system for sosuave articles that every one can rate them
just like amazon's.
what do you think?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Maybe the posters should be rated.

1. Dead on
2. Some of the time
3. So So
4. Total Dumba$$
5. Do not listen

JK :D
 
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There's already a rating system.
 
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Dongfu said:
Maybe the posters should be rated.

1. Dead on
2. Some of the time
3. So So
4. Total Dumba$$
5. Do not listen

JK :D
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good:kick: :D
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Rating a post or a poster means confirming to a particular way of doing things.. There isn't a single way of doing things in an art form, if there was, there'd be a book, paint like Michelangelo for dummies.


Besides, what makes any of you qualified to rate someone or their contribution?
 
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Booblepook said:
Rating a post or a poster means confirming to a particular way of doing things.. There isn't a single way of doing things in an art form, if there was, there'd be a book, paint like Michelangelo for dummies.


Besides, what makes any of you qualified to rate someone or their contribution?
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So what makes this any different than people who have religious, political, financial or cultural ideologies? :whistle:
 
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