suavedave
Senior Don Juan
Im not gay, I mean-- we're talking about relating well with women; fine. But what about networking, business, friendship, etc. There is a lot of cross over (ok, No kino on your boss now!!!!!) But, think about it.
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Suggestion: Make a Board for Guy Relationships
- Thread starter suavedave
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
assasin
Don Juan
Is a hand shake not Kino?
Is a pat on the back not Kino?
C+F, Eye Contact, even neg hits are all parts of interacting with everyone, even your buddies and at work.
Is a pat on the back not Kino?
C+F, Eye Contact, even neg hits are all parts of interacting with everyone, even your buddies and at work.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
suavedave
Senior Don Juan
exactly assasin
Just what I'm saying...
But another board-- with a different objective. I mean, not doing these things with the purpose of sex!
For instance, last night at the club I had as a first order of priority to find a wing man. What's the best way to do this (essentially; approach guys). This kind of thing is not discussed, and it would be helpful to have a board for it.
Just what I'm saying...
But another board-- with a different objective. I mean, not doing these things with the purpose of sex!
For instance, last night at the club I had as a first order of priority to find a wing man. What's the best way to do this (essentially; approach guys). This kind of thing is not discussed, and it would be helpful to have a board for it.
-HPNOTIQ-
Master Don Juan
Re: exactly assasin
My thoughts:
I am assuming that you go clubbing solo, thus, have resulted in trying to find a wingman there. I wouldn't recommend it. There maybe a small percentage of guys that you could just laugh it up at a bar/club, make a few comments about the Vancouver Canucks, offer a game of pool, then plan a strategy on how you can pull some HB's -- But, that's wishful thinking.
You will come across problems with trying to find a wingman "for the night". First, you don't know him from sh*t, and he doesn't know you from sh*t. How do you agree upon who gets who when dealing with women? What makes you think he won't c*ckblock an opportunity when it arises for you? What makes you think he'll give a rip if you get some.
Second, you're a DJ - I'm a DJ...that's cool. But, who the heck is your wingman? Unless he's versed in some of the finer points of DJism, then, he might as well be an AFC buddy that ruins all your opportunities.
Third, it sounds really gay. I'm sure 'in-theory' it could work. You comming up to a man, buying him a drink, buying him a round of pool, then plotting the attack on the females - what are you going to do next? Plan some KINO? Do a C/F SS pattern?
Hahaha..not trying to flame you bro..just busting your b*lls a little bit. I find it better to go with 'close' buddies you already know. With them, at least you know the 'formula' on who gets which girl, how to divert a group of female's attention so you can strike, and how to back-up all your DJ skills. Close buddies can, and always will, push you when you're nervous. If you have to, revert an AFC buddy. AFC buddies are great people to revert and make DJ wingmen.
I'm sure if you asked this question in the regular discussion threads, a bunch of guys would be able to answer it rather quickly.
My thoughts:
I am assuming that you go clubbing solo, thus, have resulted in trying to find a wingman there. I wouldn't recommend it. There maybe a small percentage of guys that you could just laugh it up at a bar/club, make a few comments about the Vancouver Canucks, offer a game of pool, then plan a strategy on how you can pull some HB's -- But, that's wishful thinking.
You will come across problems with trying to find a wingman "for the night". First, you don't know him from sh*t, and he doesn't know you from sh*t. How do you agree upon who gets who when dealing with women? What makes you think he won't c*ckblock an opportunity when it arises for you? What makes you think he'll give a rip if you get some.
Second, you're a DJ - I'm a DJ...that's cool. But, who the heck is your wingman? Unless he's versed in some of the finer points of DJism, then, he might as well be an AFC buddy that ruins all your opportunities.
Third, it sounds really gay. I'm sure 'in-theory' it could work. You comming up to a man, buying him a drink, buying him a round of pool, then plotting the attack on the females - what are you going to do next? Plan some KINO? Do a C/F SS pattern?
Hahaha..not trying to flame you bro..just busting your b*lls a little bit. I find it better to go with 'close' buddies you already know. With them, at least you know the 'formula' on who gets which girl, how to divert a group of female's attention so you can strike, and how to back-up all your DJ skills. Close buddies can, and always will, push you when you're nervous. If you have to, revert an AFC buddy. AFC buddies are great people to revert and make DJ wingmen.
drixsa
Master Don Juan
Re: Re: exactly assasin
id say itd be quite a goal to manage to pick up a guy to be your wingman without comin off as gay
my best advice: try to fid agroup of ppl and meet them. there could be woman already there if not, ask one of the guys your talking to, to help and come approach some woman that you see eye'n you
your shallow and unproductiveOriginally posted by The Edge
The Edge ' Some have it, and some don't '
id say itd be quite a goal to manage to pick up a guy to be your wingman without comin off as gay
my best advice: try to fid agroup of ppl and meet them. there could be woman already there if not, ask one of the guys your talking to, to help and come approach some woman that you see eye'n you
suavedave
Senior Don Juan
good posts....
Thanks, very useful comments (except for the "gay" remarks!... well those were helpful too! In retrospect it must have seemed like I was hitting on them-- maybe one guy who looked gay.)
Anyway, what I did was get on the dance floor and see a guy dancing a way. I spotted a two set and grabbed his hand and moved it over to the chick. The girl looked a bit agast, but smiled and made EC him. There was brief interaction, but the other chick wasn't really into anything, so I moved on............
Anyway, experience experience.
But on the subject: I mean a "how to make friends and influence people" type board.
Thanks, very useful comments (except for the "gay" remarks!... well those were helpful too! In retrospect it must have seemed like I was hitting on them-- maybe one guy who looked gay.)
Anyway, what I did was get on the dance floor and see a guy dancing a way. I spotted a two set and grabbed his hand and moved it over to the chick. The girl looked a bit agast, but smiled and made EC him. There was brief interaction, but the other chick wasn't really into anything, so I moved on............
Anyway, experience experience.
But on the subject: I mean a "how to make friends and influence people" type board.
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
oreo_renegade
Master Don Juan
I think DJing isn't just something you do to get sex, a DJ is someone you are through-out your day, whether it is with women you want to nail, women you use as friends, males you use as friends, teachers, coworkers, bosses, family, children at playground(hahaha)
Whatever you DO through-out your day, you DO IT like a DJ.
Remember a DJ doesnt run his life around women.
So all the "gay" commments are from retards.
I DJ all the time. Yesterday I came up and started talking to a random guy just as I would talk to a random girl if I was sitting there all alone and they were sitting there all alone too.
Am I gay? No. I was just making friendly conversation.
What's so "DJ" about that?
It takes confidance to talk to a stranger, it takes social skills to talk about different topics and keep the conversation flowing.
And that is true no matter who you approach.
PS- in case im not clear, i dont really thik we need a different forum for this because you can already apply everything you learn in other forums to your daily interactions.
Whatever you DO through-out your day, you DO IT like a DJ.
Remember a DJ doesnt run his life around women.
So all the "gay" commments are from retards.
I DJ all the time. Yesterday I came up and started talking to a random guy just as I would talk to a random girl if I was sitting there all alone and they were sitting there all alone too.
Am I gay? No. I was just making friendly conversation.
What's so "DJ" about that?
It takes confidance to talk to a stranger, it takes social skills to talk about different topics and keep the conversation flowing.
And that is true no matter who you approach.
PS- in case im not clear, i dont really thik we need a different forum for this because you can already apply everything you learn in other forums to your daily interactions.
suavedave
Senior Don Juan
My reasoning
That's right!
But, remember the book "How to make friends and influence people." I am of the same opinion -- we apply these skills to our daily interactions, but I'm not sure I agree that we can apply everything to different relationships.
That's right!
But, remember the book "How to make friends and influence people." I am of the same opinion -- we apply these skills to our daily interactions, but I'm not sure I agree that we can apply everything to different relationships.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
metahuman
Banned
WHAT!?
where the hell did this men thread idea come from? I don't see anyone currently throwing gay threads in the forum, sot this new idea will certainly not unclutter the forum. So how did your creative mind-process reach this suggestion?
I concur
where the hell did this men thread idea come from? I don't see anyone currently throwing gay threads in the forum, sot this new idea will certainly not unclutter the forum. So how did your creative mind-process reach this suggestion?
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Hey SuaveDave, here are two excellent threads for that purpose, I think you will love them!
Use Men, Older Women, and Children for Practice
The Art of Omni-Kino
Check them out, tell me your thoughts...
Use Men, Older Women, and Children for Practice
The Art of Omni-Kino
Check them out, tell me your thoughts...