Delete more threads. Useless threads that are about casual highschool drama. The kind of threads that waste the precious sosuave.net bandwidth. Its just really annoying, I dont really like posting in the highschool section even though I'm in highschool just because of all the drama. Its like the last thing a DJ should be reading.
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
suggestion for highschool forum
- Thread starter xomel
- Start date
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Don Pablo
Senior Don Juan
Moving to Suggestions and Feedback...........
Oh wait, I can't do that.
Oh wait, I can't do that.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Spoiled3289
Don Juan
TREATED! lol
Capt.Jack Sparrow
Master Don Juan
BUUUURRRN
This site is about advice for dating and meeting girls not advice for everything in life in all subjects. I just think the mods and admins need to crack down on drama posts that no one can learn from and serve no purpose.
Microphone Fiend
Master Don Juan
That's all HS is pretty much, drama. Why doy you care about the site's appearance? You know that you can always read the bible or log off and do something instead of ranting about nothingh
oakraiderz2
Master Don Juan
HAHAHA, get em boy...
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
comic_relief
Master Don Juan
Spoiled is making fun of you
thats cute.
thats cute.
CableLight
Master Don Juan
Wait...Guys...We forgot one:
"You got SERRRRVED"
Should about take care of em
"You got SERRRRVED"
Should about take care of em
The Antichrist_Star
Master Don Juan
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Owned?
Bitched?
Punk'D?
Bitched?
Punk'D?
oakraiderz2
Master Don Juan
Checkmat3!!!Originally posted by CableLight
Wait...Guys...We forgot one:
"You got SERRRRVED"
Should about take care of em
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.