"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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suggestion for highschool forum

xomel

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Delete more threads. Useless threads that are about casual highschool drama. The kind of threads that waste the precious sosuave.net bandwidth. Its just really annoying, I dont really like posting in the highschool section even though I'm in highschool just because of all the drama. Its like the last thing a DJ should be reading.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Porky

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Delete useless threads...

like this one?
 

Vincent

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Its not even really a suggestion though. Its kinda a rant :\
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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xomel

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This site is about advice for dating and meeting girls not advice for everything in life in all subjects. I just think the mods and admins need to crack down on drama posts that no one can learn from and serve no purpose.
 

Microphone Fiend

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Originally posted by xomel
This site is about advice for dating and meeting girls not advice for everything in life in all subjects. I just think the mods and admins need to crack down on drama posts that no one can learn from and serve no purpose.
That's all HS is pretty much, drama. Why doy you care about the site's appearance? You know that you can always read the bible or log off and do something instead of ranting about nothingh
 

oakraiderz2

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Originally posted by Porky
Delete useless threads...

like this one?
HAHAHA, get em boy...
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Spoiled is making fun of you
thats cute.:D
 

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Wait...Guys...We forgot one:

"You got SERRRRVED"

Should about take care of em :p
 

The Antichrist_Star

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Owned?

Bitched?

Punk'D?

:)
 

Vincent

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Originally posted by baseballDJ
Spoiled is making fun of you
thats cute.:D
HAHAHA that made me laugh so hard. Thats the ultimate burn.
 

oakraiderz2

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Originally posted by CableLight
Wait...Guys...We forgot one:

"You got SERRRRVED"

Should about take care of em :p
Checkmat3!!!
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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