"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Suggested new series: Renaissance Man

Double_Diamonds

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I would like to create a new series of posts on sosuave called the "Renaissance man" about the perfect renaissance man. And by that I mean, talented in all areas. I'd like to teach things besides seduction (won't teach any seduction). This site is about creating men, and that's exactly what this will do by discovering talents and instilling values. What do you guys think?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Eddy

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It sounds really good to me. After all, the perfect Don Juan is a real man. What better way to go about becoming such a man.
 

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sounds very good to me.

I am prepared to help out any way I can. (you already know that though;)).
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Since seduction is out, what other things would be taught? Just cusrious whether you're another Doogie Hauser or something else.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Double_Diamonds

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Thanks for the positve replies guys. And concernign Francisco d'Anconia, I was thinking on such things as finding your own personal religious beliefs (whatever they are, im very open), better fitness, better knowledge of business, etiquete, philosphy, and tons and tons of things im not mentioning.

And btw, is doogie hauser that doctor on TV (if so i watched that in kindergarten but I completely forgot about him, thanks for reminding me haha)
 

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I'd like to see some posts on dancing and etiquette, not to mention various card games and little bits of trivia. Why wine A is better than wine B or what distinguishes a great picaso from a marginal one.

Kelson
 

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Kelson you understood me to the T bro.
 

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I'd like to see some posts on dancing and etiquette, not to mention various card games and little bits of trivia. Why wine A is better than wine B or what distinguishes a great picaso from a marginal one.
..... go to college.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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