"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Sudden unavailability from her?

Leaf

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Couple months it's been going great. We take turns and cook for each other then have mad rough sex. The last time she messaged me after saying she has a week of consecutive shifts at work and won't be available. But then is spending her free time posting on social media catching up with her girlfriends. She'll message me at least once each day to 'check up' on me almost.

So whats she playing at? I'm not sure how to proceed. I've given her space and only reply when she messages.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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soulforge

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Sounds like she is in it for the SEX if and when SHE needs it.. When things get busy in her life, YOUR out of the picture son!

I would step back and have very little contact with her.. A girl that is REALLY into you, will try her best to keep in touch and meeting because you doesn't want to fuk a GOOD thing up!

Take a step back, and let her miss you!
 

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Couple months it's been going great. We take turns and cook for each other then have mad rough sex. The last time she messaged me after saying she has a week of consecutive shifts at work and won't be available. But then is spending her free time posting on social media catching up with her girlfriends. She'll message me at least once each day to 'check up' on me almost.

So whats she playing at? I'm not sure how to proceed. I've given her space and only reply when she messages.
She has a busy work week, in between she chats with her girlfriends. Why is that a problem?

Seems perfectly normal to me.
 

wifehunter

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To her, you are a low priority. Her man, should always be at the top.

I'd walk away, physically and mentally. And if she messaged me, I'd keep my answers to 'one word' yes, no, maybe, etc.

Show her you don't give a sh!t.

Go out and meet other women.
 

marmel75

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She has a busy work week, in between she chats with her girlfriends. Why is that a problem?

Seems perfectly normal to me.
OP needs to find other ways to fill his time than texting her.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Spidah

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Here's the thing man. If a woman isn't complaining that you don't spend enough time with her, it means you're doing it wrong.

You can't be sitting around worrying what the hoe you're fuking is doing all day. That shyt is feminine.
 

Tilex

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What's the big deal?
You aren't married to her. You don't need to check up on her 24/7.

Believe it or not, people like to read their emails before going to bed.
 
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