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Sudden unavailability from her?

Leaf

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Couple months it's been going great. We take turns and cook for each other then have mad rough sex. The last time she messaged me after saying she has a week of consecutive shifts at work and won't be available. But then is spending her free time posting on social media catching up with her girlfriends. She'll message me at least once each day to 'check up' on me almost.

So whats she playing at? I'm not sure how to proceed. I've given her space and only reply when she messages.
 

soulforge

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Sounds like she is in it for the SEX if and when SHE needs it.. When things get busy in her life, YOUR out of the picture son!

I would step back and have very little contact with her.. A girl that is REALLY into you, will try her best to keep in touch and meeting because you doesn't want to fuk a GOOD thing up!

Take a step back, and let her miss you!
 

Spaz

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Couple months it's been going great. We take turns and cook for each other then have mad rough sex. The last time she messaged me after saying she has a week of consecutive shifts at work and won't be available. But then is spending her free time posting on social media catching up with her girlfriends. She'll message me at least once each day to 'check up' on me almost.

So whats she playing at? I'm not sure how to proceed. I've given her space and only reply when she messages.
She has a busy work week, in between she chats with her girlfriends. Why is that a problem?

Seems perfectly normal to me.
 

wifehunter

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To her, you are a low priority. Her man, should always be at the top.

I'd walk away, physically and mentally. And if she messaged me, I'd keep my answers to 'one word' yes, no, maybe, etc.

Show her you don't give a sh!t.

Go out and meet other women.
 

marmel75

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She has a busy work week, in between she chats with her girlfriends. Why is that a problem?

Seems perfectly normal to me.
OP needs to find other ways to fill his time than texting her.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

Spidah

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Here's the thing man. If a woman isn't complaining that you don't spend enough time with her, it means you're doing it wrong.

You can't be sitting around worrying what the hoe you're fuking is doing all day. That shyt is feminine.
 

Tilex

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What's the big deal?
You aren't married to her. You don't need to check up on her 24/7.

Believe it or not, people like to read their emails before going to bed.
 
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