Successfully getting laid a lot and sleeping with different women after 30.

[mrgoodstuff]

Yes.

it makes me think of what motivates women to put men through divorce.

I'm really, really lucky to have avoided all of this aren't I?

I just like learning about others' experiences and trying to figure out how to encourage more love between genders.

More love between the genders. Today that would be a "cult". You have to remember. Many of the women who came to these men felt entitled to his stuff. Thus they tear away when they've secured it. What do you think motivates a woman to cuck a man? She may have never liked him. She came from a different group. A group she recieves guidance and leadership from. She listens to a man or men in that group. Huaband always was the "Mark". This is not all women. But a great many women came into that union concerned about what she could extract. Especially in California.

 

[Lynx nkaf]

More love between the genders. Today that would be a "cult". You have to remember. Many of the women who came to these men felt entitled to his stuff. Thus they tear away when they've secured it. What do you think motivates a woman to cuck a man? She may have never liked him. She came from a different group. A group she recieves guidance and leadership from. She listens to a man or men in that group. Huaband always was the "Mark". This is not all women. But a great many women came into that union concerned about what she could extract. Especially in California.

You say the same thing mrgoodstuff but because you're male you use the word sex not love.
That can't possibly be construed as cultish.

Hmmm, the times you've alluded to females being controlled by their circles I always assumed you meant other women.
Never considered you meant other men do the coaching to these women to hurt their husbands.
Kind of military strategy-like.
Like that military strategy of wounding-not-killing so time and resources and logistics are taken up in tending to the wounded.

Always thoughtprovoking posts Sir. I always appreciate your courtesy even when discussing painful schit.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

You say the same thing mrgoodstuff but because you're male you use the word sex not love.
That can't possibly be construed as cultish.

Hmmm, the times you've alluded to females being controlled by their circles I always assumed you meant other women.
Never considered you meant other men do the coaching to these women to hurt their husbands.
Kind of military strategy-like.
Like that military strategy of wounding-not-killing so time and resources and logistics are taken up in tending to the wounded.

Always thoughtprovoking posts Sir. I always appreciate your courtesy even when discussing painful schit.

Imho today love is treated as a "joke" or a "weakness", so for a couple to implement it properly they'd be on their own or part of a small break away group like a "cult". I'm cynical when i say "cult" but trying to say a love relationship will have it's own identity and signature outside of the dysfunctional and controlling and unloving things that most are doing.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

You say the same thing mrgoodstuff but because you're male you use the word sex not love.
That can't possibly be construed as cultish.

Hmmm, the times you've alluded to females being controlled by their circles I always assumed you meant other women.
Never considered you meant other men do the coaching to these women to hurt their husbands.
Kind of military strategy-like.
Like that military strategy of wounding-not-killing so time and resources and logistics are taken up in tending to the wounded.

Always thoughtprovoking posts Sir. I always appreciate your courtesy even when discussing painful schit.

I will clarify this. I believe a woman cucking a man because she "doesn't feel like it" over an extended period of time is a bunch of bullshyt.

You say the same thing mrgoodstuff but because you're male you use the word sex not love.
That can't possibly be construed as cultish.

Hmmm, the times you've alluded to females being controlled by their circles I always assumed you meant other women.
Never considered you meant other men do the coaching to these women to hurt their husbands.
Kind of military strategy-like.
Like that military strategy of wounding-not-killing so time and resources and logistics are taken up in tending to the wounded.

Always thoughtprovoking posts Sir. I always appreciate your courtesy even when discussing painful schit.

I meant "love", and yes with "love" sex will happen. You don't need the highest amount of lust to make love to a man or woman you actually love.

 

[Lynx nkaf]

I will clarify this. I believe a woman cucking a man because she "doesn't feel like it" over an extended period of time is a bunch of bullshyt.


I meant "love", and yes with "love" sex will happen. You don't need the highest amount of lust to make love to a man or woman you actually love.

ok.
sex had lots of challenges....but because I love him I would have ****ty sex.

now, if I have acquiesced and stated publicly that I'm willing to accept him cheating why do I not call him right now?
I'm submissive, don't care that means he has more power or whatever because I'm chasing him....so what's stopping me?
inability to commit?
false belief of what love is?
Maybe its true, OP, that over 30 none sticks in there for the longhaul if that's what this thread is about

 

[mrgoodstuff]

ok.
sex had lots of challenges....but because I love him I would have ****ty sex.

I thought your last situation was with a guy who literally CUCKED you in favor of his swinger and sharing spouse lifestyle, trying to bully you to go along with it?

now, if I have acquiesced and stated publicly that I'm willing to accept him cheating why do I not call him right now?
I'm submissive, don't care that means he has more power or whatever because I'm chasing him....so what's stopping me?
inability to commit?

If it was that same guy who would never be happy with you, why would you even consider altering yourself to fit into his viewpoint?

false belief of what love is?
Maybe its true, OP, that over 30 none sticks in there for the longhaul if that's what this thread is about

True love isn't the dysfunctional and selfish shyt that's prevailant today.

 

[jaylon]

So I've read a lot of toxic stuff on this forum about how the game ends at 30 and how after the age of 30, it is impossible to meet a lot of new women. I think that we have whined enough and even if it is true, real men find solutions to problems rather than just whine about them. Here is what I feel like is almost mandatory or very helpful if you want to sleep with a lot of different women after the age of 30 who happen to not be hideous. Please add to the list.

1. Moving to a major world class city, very mandatory.

I think that in American the only cities that really qualify for this are Chicago, NYC, and Miami. To a degree LA can too but ratios there really suck. I've been to Charleston and Nashville, had great luck there but it is still the south. You move to a London, NYC, Miami, Chicago, or any major world class city. The suburbs are to be avoided and so are areas of the country where people get married by 30 (usually small towns, suburbs, conservative areas, and smaller cities).

Save me the morally self-righteous right wing BS, I am not here to talk politics and see you cry about liberals, I am here to give actionable advice on how to get your d1ck into a lot of different women after the age of 30. Don't like it? Go start a marriage thread or some crap.

2. Get involved with hedonistic scenes (partying, loose morals, etc.)

If you have the free time and money? Get involved in nightlife. If you did your 20s well, did not screw around, focused on making money, and have change to spare to where your career is not that important? Get a job as a bartender, club promoter, or anything to do with working in nightlife. My boy @cola can offer some advice here as well but nightlife is one of many avenues. Try to get involved in model photography and even make friends who work in porn, try to get involved in scenes where sex is easy.

3. Travel to vacation spots in the summer.

Mikonos in Greece is a good example but I am sure my boy @Who Dares Win can provide good vacation spots as well. Go where people are going to get laid and party hard.

4. Look good.

Hard to keep a nice body after 30 but look good, it will take you off the provider list.

I will add more to it, hoping others can add to it too!

I was 54 when my wife died and for the next 20 years had no difficulty meeting, dating, sleeping and having sex with many women and now at age 85 I just enjoy the memories.

 

[Lynx nkaf]

I thought your last situation was with a guy who literally CUCKED you in favor of his swinger and sharing spouse lifestyle, trying to bully you to go along with it?


If it was that same guy who would never be happy with you, why would you even consider altering yourself to fit into his viewpoint?



True love isn't the dysfunctional and selfish shyt that's prevailant today.

thanks for reminder he wasn't happy with me, its all true.
Just work on myself for myself.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

thanks for reminder he wasn't happy with me, its all true.
Just work on myself for myself.

You shouldn't bend outside of your values or parameters to get a lay. That's giving up self respect.

There's millions of men in this country who think they can't find a "good woman". Many of those probably won't cheat and if they did, it probably would be less than 1% of what you were used to before.

 

[Lynx nkaf]

You shouldn't bend outside of your values or parameters to get a lay. That's giving up self respect.

There's millions of men in this country who think they can't find a "good woman". Many of those probably won't cheat and if they did, it probably would be less than 1% of what you were used to before.

they all think my smv is too low, weigh too much, don't wear makeup, etc. decided not to tell age anymore "a lady never reveals her age" said in singsong voice

 

[mrgoodstuff]

they all think my smv is too low, weigh too much, don't wear makeup, etc.

Get your body game together. You don't have to "all made up". But a clean and fit "single" look works. It's the same things a lot of the guys need to do. When your closer to your body game goal ( which works for singles ), start having sex with guys who value you and treat you well. Being pumped and dumped won't help you at all. , but having guys want to hold on you and kiss you and make your body feel good will be good for your esteem and looks.

 

[Lynx nkaf]

Get your body game together. You don't have to "all made up". But a clean and fit "single" look works. It's the same things a lot of the guys need to do. When your closer to your body game goal ( which works for singles ), start having sex with guys who value you and treat you well. Being pumped and dumped won't help you at all. , but having guys want to hold on you and kiss you and make your body feel good will be good for your esteem and looks.

no.

I'd rather pay a male hooker. Where tf are they? New York? LA? Vancouver? Montreal?

Feel safer at larger presence bodyweight. I have a high selfesteem to want to remain safe.

I'm upping my selfdefense skills and the weight will come off. I have faith.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

no.

I'd rather pay a male hooker. Where tf are they? New York? LA? Vancouver? Montreal?

Feel safer at larger presence bodyweight. I have a high selfesteem to want to remain safe.

I'm upping my selfdefense skills and the weight will come off. I have faith.

Go in the male strip club and get his number.

 

[Lynx nkaf]

no strip clubs in this province-wow hey? but yeah, not bad idea at all

Go in the male strip club and get his number.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Get him from a club out of province. Have him for a weekend or a couple off days.

no strip clubs in this province-wow hey? but yeah, not bad idea at all

 

[Lynx nkaf]

Get him from a club out of province. Have him for a weekend or a couple off days.

I did some research. There's one for hire in this city. A club or two in Winnipeg and a club or two in the province west of here. lol.

I'm ok with controlling my drive.

I'll keep my gorilla mindset of achieving other goals first.

I get why sex sucked for me last time. It would if the other partner was chubby too.

 

[Xanderson]

So I've read a lot of toxic stuff on this forum about how the game ends at 30 and how after the age of 30, it is impossible to meet a lot of new women. I think that we have whined enough and even if it is true, real men find solutions to problems rather than just whine about them. Here is what I feel like is almost mandatory or very helpful if you want to sleep with a lot of different women after the age of 30 who happen to not be hideous. Please add to the list.

1. Moving to a major world class city, very mandatory.

I think that in American the only cities that really qualify for this are Chicago, NYC, and Miami. To a degree LA can too but ratios there really suck. I've been to Charleston and Nashville, had great luck there but it is still the south. You move to a London, NYC, Miami, Chicago, or any major world class city. The suburbs are to be avoided and so are areas of the country where people get married by 30 (usually small towns, suburbs, conservative areas, and smaller cities).

Save me the morally self-righteous right wing BS, I am not here to talk politics and see you cry about liberals, I am here to give actionable advice on how to get your d1ck into a lot of different women after the age of 30. Don't like it? Go start a marriage thread or some crap.

2. Get involved with hedonistic scenes (partying, loose morals, etc.)

If you have the free time and money? Get involved in nightlife. If you did your 20s well, did not screw around, focused on making money, and have change to spare to where your career is not that important? Get a job as a bartender, club promoter, or anything to do with working in nightlife. My boy @cola can offer some advice here as well but nightlife is one of many avenues. Try to get involved in model photography and even make friends who work in porn, try to get involved in scenes where sex is easy.

3. Travel to vacation spots in the summer.

Mikonos in Greece is a good example but I am sure my boy @Who Dares Win can provide good vacation spots as well. Go where people are going to get laid and party hard.

4. Look good.

Hard to keep a nice body after 30 but look good, it will take you off the provider list.

I will add more to it, hoping others can add to it too!

Im 37 and still in the game ...might stay in until 45 , keep myself in shape with gym, nightlife scene etc

 

[Redwolf]

And how do you feel if the woman was "bullied" into the swinging lifestyle because the man was already doing it? And how do you feel if it was the man "bullied" into the swinging lifestyle because she wanted to open up the marriage?

While I am sure that happens the couples I get with are pretty great and obviously have strong relationships. What motivates them is the same thing that motivates me. Sexual variety. It makes life exciting and they obviously enjoy it as much as I do. It's a win win.

 

[SW15]

Im 37 and still in the game ...might stay in until 45 , keep myself in shape with gym, nightlife scene etc

Very good!

The gym should be a priority of all. Blue pilled married men need to be spending more time in the gym too. They should be doing this to prevent their wives from leaving them. Due to a surplus of men, there's immense male thirst out there and wives are being pursued. Single and unattached men should make the gym a bigger priority because it is more difficult to initially attract than to retain. A lot of existing relationships do last (and often for much longer than they should) due to inertia and the fear of starting over again.

COVID is going to make nightlife difficult in the short term (next 6-24 months). Beyond that, I think nightlife will eventually recover. I've never been a big nightlife person. With that said, nightlife isn't out of the question for a 40 year old. Additionally, there's greater childlessness later into life for the Millennial generation, so there is the possibility for Millennials to me more dependent upon nightlife later into life than in previous decades. Apps like Hinge and Bumble are overloaded with never married and childless 30 something singles. It is possible that the apps are benefitting more from the glut of later in life singles than the bar scene.

 

[Poonani Maker]

Im 37 and still in the game ...might stay in until 45 , keep myself in shape with gym, nightlife scene etc

You can definitely. Here's why. The more money you save/have/make, the more you can experiment with what works for you (in the health department mainly). I've never been fitter in my life and have a distinguished virile look ala the now-banned Gone with the Wind, Rhett Butler, but I look better though in the fantasy of movies (and real life I suppose), Clark Gable had a massive reputation as well which I don't have. I look better though, not yet at the 45 mark, knock on wood.