"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Successful Gym Approach

New2Town

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So two days ago, I went to the gym in my apartment complex and when I got in, I saw an immediate IOI from a HB7, a nice looking Spanish girl. She was working out on the treadmill and I just began lifting.

After a set, she walks by to a machine, and I motion for her to take out her ear buds on her IPod. I notice she has a Minnesota Twins shirt on and I ask her if she was a Twins fan.

Me: Hey, are you a Twins fan or are you just wearing the shirt?
HB7: Actually, it's my boy-ex-boyfriend's shirt (she quickly corrected her mistake). I love it because it's soft.
Me: Well, there goes my idea to talk sports with you.
HB7: Well, actually, I am a huge Spurs fan. My friends and I have named all of our pets after Spurs players and blah blah blah.
Me: Oh ok, that's awesome. I am actually going to be writing about the Spurs for a local newspaper (DHV).
HB7: No way! I am so jealous of you.
Me: What can I say?

I put my IPod back on and I begin working out again and I catch occasional glances from her out of the corner of my eye. I see she is about to leave, but I motion to her to come over to me.

Me: Hey, I'll tell you what. Give me your number, and then I'll call you and maybe you can tell me some questions to ask the players.
HB7: Really? That would be awesome.
Me: I'll just put my number in your phone and give mine a call.

She hands me her phone, and I plug my number in and call my phone. We left it off pretty good and she leaves and I continue to work out.

Now, this happened on Tuesday, so I figure I'll give her a call tomorrow afternoon (Thursday) to try to see if she has any questions for the players. I'll also try to see if she wants to hang out tomorrow night.

Thoughts on the approach and ensuing plan?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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wiggamonkey

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hey man-- an approach that good and no one has given you props??? weird

way to go!
 

Lord Shinra

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Thats actually a good approach. I got to find out when the girls go to my gym more. Usually when I go, theres a few but nothing that has caught my eye:mad:

But good job man, keep going.
 

regular_guy

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That was very casual. Thats awesome, I am always qurious how to go about approaching at the gym. Seems like a casual conversation is just the thing.
 

DismantleRepair

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Good work, you got the digits. But are you sure she doesn't just want to use you to get to the Spurs?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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