Success is leading me to new options, however...

[onthepath]

hi guys
i finally went out there with the aim of meeting some new friends, and i've finally found a cool gropu of 3 people whom i have a lot in common

now one of the gropu is a girl, whom i LJBF'd although it was mutual, and now she's holding a small party and inviting some of her single friends, with the intent of setting me up

my question is, do you guys have some default conversation fillers that you use? i know that i sometimes test her interest level by deliberatley allowing for some uncomfortable silence, but i just wanted to know some possible questions or topics that i can keep just in reserve. i do'nt let myself ask the same lame where do you work what do you study etc questions, because id rather save those for later, after ive found a fun girl

thanks

 

[onthepath]

anyone?
the party starts with a bbq lunch tomorrow

 

[duttylove]

Dont think about what your going to say just let it flow. listen to what shes saying and expand on it. you can have a 10 minute conversation from a simple statement like "your in a good mood"

 

[MAVER1CK]

exactly, just let it flow..


So where do you go to college?

westwood

oh really? how is it there? i was looking into that a while ago

its great the campus is nice blah blah blah

How are the professors?

They are very cool and helping..

how well are you doing there?

im doing good, its my second year.

thats kool, whats the plan?

oh i dont know, just rollin with it for now.

hahah yep, i know how that goes..



just keep it flowing and listen to what she has to say. try and keep the convo on HER.

 

[cant think of a user name]

Originally posted by MAVER1CK
So where do you go to college?

westwood

oh really? how is it there? i was looking into that a while ago

its great the campus is nice blah blah blah

How are the professors?

They are very cool and helping..

how well are you doing there?

im doing good, its my second year.

thats kool, whats the plan?

oh i dont know, just rollin with it for now.

hahah yep, i know how that goes..

I appreciate the point you're making but......so many questions..... can really lead to nowhere....

....depends on the person though... seriously I don't even know how or why, but with certain people, ANY conversation is fun because both parties are making it fun, whereas with others it's hardly fun unless I put the effort in.... then it just crumbles...... different social dynamics I guess.....

I don't even know what the point of my post was.