"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Success/confidence.

Rainman4707

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Went about five months without much luck with women, I was wondering if the game had changed so much & that i would'nt have much chance with women & that they were to picky especially online & that's why MGTOW. My mentality was, keep going, don't give up. Most men quit. I kept going & in the last couple month the women are now swarming round me.
Funny thing confidence is. I've read a book about it & i have a confident mindset, but when things are going your way, it makes a massive difference.
When you have options and you're fuc*ing a few women, you are more confident.

I've been watching a few episodes of the tv series Lucifer the last couple weeks. I've tried to use a bit of the character lucifer morningstars humour & laid back approach too. That seemed to help with my success recently.

Few things i have noticed recently. Women always seem to ask similar questions. What do you do for work? What car do you have? Have you met many other women?Those three questions i already knew women asked all the time. Other frequent questions have been, do you go out much? What are your hobbies?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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