"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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SUCCESS, 1st step completed. listen to these guys, they know their sh*t

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Today, I walked into my anthropology class and said to this cutie in fron of me:
me: we've spoken a couple times, but I didnt catch your name.
her: oh, I'm amy.
Me: are you ready for the midterm?
Her: Not really i'm kinda nervous.
Me: You'll do fine, just relax
(At this time, the professor entered)
Me: We better get ready, I'll talk to you later.
her: OK! (smile)
(This is after test)
Me: Hey amy, why dont you write down your number so I can give you a call over break.
Her: O.k. here it is.
Me: Thanks, I'll give you a call.

I would have never had the balls to do that if it werent for the help of casonova and gipper! It was a great way to start building my confidence, My attitiude was different when I was talking to her, I was in control!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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congrats... Whitey. That was smooth.
 
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Originally posted by Whitey:

Today, I walked into my anthropology class and said to this cutie in fron of me:
me: we've spoken a couple times, but I didnt catch your name.
her: oh, I'm amy.
Me: are you ready for the midterm?
Her: Not really i'm kinda nervous.
Me: You'll do fine, just relax
(At this time, the professor entered)
Me: We better get ready, I'll talk to you later.
her: OK! (smile)
(This is after test)
Me: Hey amy, why dont you write down your number so I can give you a call over break.
Her: O.k. here it is.
Me: Thanks, I'll give you a call.

I would have never had the balls to do that if it werent for the help of casonova and gipper! It was a great way to start building my confidence, My attitiude was different when I was talking to her, I was in control!
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Congratulations Whitey!

You are definitely on your way! Stay cool, stay focused and read the DJ Bible until it becomes second nature.

Oh, and by the way, I appreciate the thanks, but YOU did all the hard work!

Gipper

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"There's nothing wrong with letting the girls know you're money, and that you want to party.
-Trent, from "Swingers"

Love is the self-delusion we manufacture to justify the trouble we take to have sex.
-Daniel S. Greenberg
 
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Moved to Success Stories.

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i'd rather die than give you control
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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i like it but replace the thanks at the closing with something else for next time. like an "alright" or anything that fits with you. thanking her for giving you her number just comes across as a little needy.

She probably didn't think about it but theres nothing wrong with adding a little polish in there.
 
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WAY TO GO, WHITEY!

You bring honor to DJs everywhere by your success. I agree with Gipper, too: I'm honored by your thanks, but you should thank YOURSELF the most. YOU DID IT. One small step for a DJ... one giant leap for a man!



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"You can discover what your enemy fears most by observing the means he uses to frighten you."
Eric Hoffer

"I may disagree with what you have to say, but I shall defend, to the death, your right to say it."
Voltaire

"Before we set our hearts too much upon anything, let us examine how happy those are who already possess it."
Francois de La Rochefoucauld
 
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Good job Whitey. I don't intend to bash your post, but I did notice one slight error you made when you asked for the phone number. You replied with, "Thanks, I'll call you." You should not have said thanks, because in your mind you should have been confident she would give it to you. It also shows some weakness. Should could have responded with "Great, I'll call you sometime." Or something to that extent. Otherwise good job and keep up the great work.
 
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Good job Whitey. I don't intend to bash your post, but I did notice one slight error you made when you asked for the phone number. You replied with, "Thanks, I'll call you." You should not have said thanks, because in your mind you should have been confident she would give it to you. It also shows some weakness. Should could have responded with "Great, I'll call you sometime." Or something to that extent. Otherwise good job and keep up the great work.

"If your rap is strong it can't go wrong."

thecraftylefty
 
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