"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Subtle Signs and Prods to Guys

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I have been talking to this girl at school for about 2 months now. We usually talk a couple of times per week. I have never worked up the nerve to try to hook things up even though she has given a few subtle. signs of interest, at least I think. Anyway, she has never talked about past bf's in the past until the other day. She started talking about her ex-boyfriend who moved off and mentioned that she missed him but not in a way that she wanted to get back with him. Then she started talking about a guy who had been hitting on her earlier in the day and how it annoyed her.

Are these possibly signs that she wants me to go for it? I thought maybe she was trying to get a reaction out of me possibly. Any thoughts?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Here's one thing about '********' that I've learned in the past... and now I tend to use such 'patterns' (for lack of a better term) against them (or in my favor).

In your particular example, the girl is single and tells you, "This guy today hit on me and it annoyed me" this is about equal to "You're NOT hitting on me and it's annoying me" OR "This guy was hitting on me, but I would rather YOU hit on me."

If you want to get with women try this technique :
a) Figure out what you want
b) Do something to get it
c) Look to see if you Are you closer to your goal ? (Yes - Keep doing it, No - Keep reading)
d) Change your approach until you get what you want
 
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She is trying to yell at you that she is freaking "available" - go for it now!!! Invite her to a fun activity and go for a kiss b4 the nights over! See what her response is.
 
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Thanks for the feedback. I'm hoping I will develop some balls between now and next week and take some action. I'll post my success or failure next week.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Ok I'll probably see her in the morning sometime. Anyone have any more advice or feedback before I make a move? Thanks.
 
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Dammit, I didn't have the balls to make a move today.. I don't know why, but I guess I'll try to psyche myself up for the next time I see her (later this week) I don't think time is likely gonna be on my side indefinitely.
 
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Dammit, I didn't have the balls to make a move today.. I don't know why, but I guess I'll try to psyche myself up for the next time I see her (later this week) I don't think time is likely gonna be on my side indefinitely.
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Patience. Do not rush. Remember, action oriented activity.
 
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Originally posted by So pimp its scary

If you want to get with women try this technique :
a) Figure out what you want
b) Do something to get it
c) Look to see if you Are you closer to your goal ? (Yes - Keep doing it, No - Keep reading)
d) Change your approach until you get what you want
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I am 100% behind you on this.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Last year I had a girl that turned out to be a bit of a nut (semi stalker) after me lol. And being a nut she wasn't as subtle as other girls. I remember her saying 100 times, My EX Boyfriend this, or my EX boyfriend that". One day she told me a story about how some "sleazeball" tried to pick her up but she was totally disgusted by him. Then I would get the "what are you doing this weekend, oh really, I'm not doing anything fun". Of course I knew exactly what she was alluding to, however I also detected a slight mental disorder which was later proven correct!

Anyway, yes, she is doing everything but pulling out two light sticks and waving you in for a landing! It's a girls more subtle way of saying ask me out!
 
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In your particular example, the girl is single and tells you, "This guy today hit on me and it annoyed me" this is about equal to "You're NOT hitting on me and it's annoying me" OR "This guy was hitting on me, but I would rather YOU hit on me."


well , thats exactly what some single chick who I thought was interested has been saying. Great too know ive been a moron, and missed those subtle signs, but thanks for the heads up.
 
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