"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Style's Game

oboy69

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Bro's,

Neil Strauss's (Style) The Game has just been released. I'm very new to the community of PUA's but the consensus is that he's one of the best in the biz. Game has received significant media coverage, and while he's been criticized for exposing 'trade secrets' so to speak, this book is a chance to view one of the best in action vicariously. I recommend you all check it out and learn from it.

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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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The question I have is, is it a better use of time to read this book, or just spend the time you could have spent reading, in the field doing approaches instead? Or, maybe you should approach and do the reading?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Originally posted by allan976
The question I have is, is it a better use of time to read this book, or just spend the time you could have spent reading, in the field doing approaches instead? Or, maybe you should approach and do the reading?
Do whatever is necessary.
 
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