"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Bro's,

Neil Strauss's (Style) The Game has just been released. I'm very new to the community of PUA's but the consensus is that he's one of the best in the biz. Game has received significant media coverage, and while he's been criticized for exposing 'trade secrets' so to speak, this book is a chance to view one of the best in action vicariously. I recommend you all check it out and learn from it.

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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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The question I have is, is it a better use of time to read this book, or just spend the time you could have spent reading, in the field doing approaches instead? Or, maybe you should approach and do the reading?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Originally posted by allan976
The question I have is, is it a better use of time to read this book, or just spend the time you could have spent reading, in the field doing approaches instead? Or, maybe you should approach and do the reading?
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Do whatever is necessary.
 
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