"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Style's Game

oboy69

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Bro's,

Neil Strauss's (Style) The Game has just been released. I'm very new to the community of PUA's but the consensus is that he's one of the best in the biz. Game has received significant media coverage, and while he's been criticized for exposing 'trade secrets' so to speak, this book is a chance to view one of the best in action vicariously. I recommend you all check it out and learn from it.

oboy
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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allan976

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The question I have is, is it a better use of time to read this book, or just spend the time you could have spent reading, in the field doing approaches instead? Or, maybe you should approach and do the reading?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Originally posted by allan976
The question I have is, is it a better use of time to read this book, or just spend the time you could have spent reading, in the field doing approaches instead? Or, maybe you should approach and do the reading?
Do whatever is necessary.
 
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