"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Ok, I've been browsing around, and I've found this one dude, who I happen to like his style. But I need an opinion on it. Does this guy look gay to you?

http://img20.imageshack.us/my.php?image=artist9916466413749058gz.jpg

http://img107.imageshack.us/my.php?image=artist9916466413749077pz.jpg

http://img107.imageshack.us/my.php?image=artist9916466414202846on.jpg

This guy is Conor Oberst from Bright Eyes. Which while alot of his music is a bit pvssy like, some of it is hella good imo (listen to Easy/Lucky/Free). Currently I have way longer hair than him (not like really long, but about 4 inches longer than his hair). And I'm thinking about cutting it down to look something like that.

Opinions appreciated.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Looks good. I'd say go for it. If you have a huge forehead like him, make sure you don't pin it off to the side like in the second pic or your eyes will bulge.

And if you're worried about looking gay, don't cop his style. It's very cutting-edge, which is good, but this makes people wonder.
 
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Looks gay to me becuse his style doesnt reflect masculinity at all., but hey if YOU like it then why give a sh!t.
 
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I'm not keen on the hairstyle, but the clothing is a good style. Bit bland if you ask me though :p
 
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I wouldn't say he looks gay, but in my personal opinion he looks like a wimp, a geek and a bum. I know that style does attract certain women (namely emo/rock types) but from listening to my female friends, it's not conventionally attractive.

I agree with Tavii that it doesn't reflect masculinity, and therefore is probably going to repulse more feminine type of women. I doubt you would attract many classy women with this look either.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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He's very skinny, that's about all that's making him look like a flamer. That and the hair. :D
 
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Gay.
 
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He looks pretty emo. His sleeves are probably blood stained from his p*ssy cuts he makes on his arm to draw pity.
 
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FAAAAAAAAAAAAAAG. instead of worrying this much about trying to find the perfect style, why dont you spend some time around and see what you like and what you feel comfortable in?
 
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he doesn't look gay to me, but Ill be a monkey's uncle if he's ever seen a gym before!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Don't let warboss alex see this thread, the guy in those pics looks steak-deprived.

As for the style, the guy doesn't look any diff from all those teenagers on the street who ask you for change, grab some respectable clothes man.
 
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Well he looks GAY to me. He kinda way to GAY, I mean not his style but he himself looks GAY. And his cloth maybe tooo tight or something. Anyways clothing looks good, go for it.
 
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well it doesn't matter cause I'm not feelin this style anymore. I think I'm gonna get out of this whole gay emo look and go surfer!!!

YAY FOR SURFER!!!!!!! :yes: :box: :cool:


anyone else here have that surfer look?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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emo scum
 
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He looks like he just money shot you on the forehead.
 
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