"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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DogFashionDisco

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Ok, I've been browsing around, and I've found this one dude, who I happen to like his style. But I need an opinion on it. Does this guy look gay to you?

http://img20.imageshack.us/my.php?image=artist9916466413749058gz.jpg

http://img107.imageshack.us/my.php?image=artist9916466413749077pz.jpg

http://img107.imageshack.us/my.php?image=artist9916466414202846on.jpg

This guy is Conor Oberst from Bright Eyes. Which while alot of his music is a bit pvssy like, some of it is hella good imo (listen to Easy/Lucky/Free). Currently I have way longer hair than him (not like really long, but about 4 inches longer than his hair). And I'm thinking about cutting it down to look something like that.

Opinions appreciated.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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seanchai

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Looks good. I'd say go for it. If you have a huge forehead like him, make sure you don't pin it off to the side like in the second pic or your eyes will bulge.

And if you're worried about looking gay, don't cop his style. It's very cutting-edge, which is good, but this makes people wonder.
 

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Looks gay to me becuse his style doesnt reflect masculinity at all., but hey if YOU like it then why give a sh!t.
 

Q-Pid

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I'm not keen on the hairstyle, but the clothing is a good style. Bit bland if you ask me though :p
 

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I wouldn't say he looks gay, but in my personal opinion he looks like a wimp, a geek and a bum. I know that style does attract certain women (namely emo/rock types) but from listening to my female friends, it's not conventionally attractive.

I agree with Tavii that it doesn't reflect masculinity, and therefore is probably going to repulse more feminine type of women. I doubt you would attract many classy women with this look either.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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He's very skinny, that's about all that's making him look like a flamer. That and the hair. :D
 

Eulogy

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Gay.
 

Potbelly

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He looks pretty emo. His sleeves are probably blood stained from his p*ssy cuts he makes on his arm to draw pity.
 

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FAAAAAAAAAAAAAAG. instead of worrying this much about trying to find the perfect style, why dont you spend some time around and see what you like and what you feel comfortable in?
 

Create Reality

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he doesn't look gay to me, but Ill be a monkey's uncle if he's ever seen a gym before!
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Don't let warboss alex see this thread, the guy in those pics looks steak-deprived.

As for the style, the guy doesn't look any diff from all those teenagers on the street who ask you for change, grab some respectable clothes man.
 

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Well he looks GAY to me. He kinda way to GAY, I mean not his style but he himself looks GAY. And his cloth maybe tooo tight or something. Anyways clothing looks good, go for it.
 

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well it doesn't matter cause I'm not feelin this style anymore. I think I'm gonna get out of this whole gay emo look and go surfer!!!

YAY FOR SURFER!!!!!!! :yes: :box: :cool:


anyone else here have that surfer look?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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emo scum
 

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He looks like he just money shot you on the forehead.
 
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