"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Here is a clip of Style at his book signing. It is in the Anything Else forum.
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=84048
It isn't of him sarging, but you get to see what he is about. Most people who have seen him in action claim that he accels in the 'under the radar' approach. The video also has our very own 007 & Animal Crackers doing 'just for fun' approaches. They plan on putting up serious effort approaches soon. I for one, am looking forward to those.
Also, here is an excellent resource for some of Style's posts (and others).
http://www.bristollair.com/methods/authors/style/
Hope this helps.
This is true of Mystery and Ross Jeffries too. Even DeAngelo has a non-threatening presence. Generally speaking, gay men are often very desireable to women.
Celebrity wise, you have guys like Johnny Depp, Jude Law and David Beckham, who have this same non-threatening quality, which women seem to adore.
This contradicts some major points this site teaches about being masculine and bold etc and is very confusing.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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This isn't a comprehensive study by any means, but once I've been with a girl for a couple of weeks I especially notice they like me to be quite manly.
I think they like trying to enlighten me to modern day PCness while I play caveman just a little bit. I don't know if acting slighly HOMO'd works in the PU, but I definitely wouldn't want to keep doing that for any length of time with the same woman.
Back in my SBAFC(super below AFC), I had this girl really hooked. I started acting like a wuss because I thought that's what men were supposed to do when "in love". In a short time, she totally hated it. She ended up dumping me a year later for being a big wuss. I didn't get it back then. Even though it should have been sooooo obvious.