"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Here is a clip of Style at his book signing. It is in the Anything Else forum.
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=84048
It isn't of him sarging, but you get to see what he is about. Most people who have seen him in action claim that he accels in the 'under the radar' approach. The video also has our very own 007 & Animal Crackers doing 'just for fun' approaches. They plan on putting up serious effort approaches soon. I for one, am looking forward to those.
Also, here is an excellent resource for some of Style's posts (and others).
http://www.bristollair.com/methods/authors/style/
Hope this helps.
This is true of Mystery and Ross Jeffries too. Even DeAngelo has a non-threatening presence. Generally speaking, gay men are often very desireable to women.
Celebrity wise, you have guys like Johnny Depp, Jude Law and David Beckham, who have this same non-threatening quality, which women seem to adore.
This contradicts some major points this site teaches about being masculine and bold etc and is very confusing.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
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This isn't a comprehensive study by any means, but once I've been with a girl for a couple of weeks I especially notice they like me to be quite manly.
I think they like trying to enlighten me to modern day PCness while I play caveman just a little bit. I don't know if acting slighly HOMO'd works in the PU, but I definitely wouldn't want to keep doing that for any length of time with the same woman.
Back in my SBAFC(super below AFC), I had this girl really hooked. I started acting like a wuss because I thought that's what men were supposed to do when "in love". In a short time, she totally hated it. She ended up dumping me a year later for being a big wuss. I didn't get it back then. Even though it should have been sooooo obvious.