Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Here is a clip of Style at his book signing. It is in the Anything Else forum.
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=84048
It isn't of him sarging, but you get to see what he is about. Most people who have seen him in action claim that he accels in the 'under the radar' approach. The video also has our very own 007 & Animal Crackers doing 'just for fun' approaches. They plan on putting up serious effort approaches soon. I for one, am looking forward to those.
Also, here is an excellent resource for some of Style's posts (and others).
http://www.bristollair.com/methods/authors/style/
Hope this helps.
This is true of Mystery and Ross Jeffries too. Even DeAngelo has a non-threatening presence. Generally speaking, gay men are often very desireable to women.
Celebrity wise, you have guys like Johnny Depp, Jude Law and David Beckham, who have this same non-threatening quality, which women seem to adore.
This contradicts some major points this site teaches about being masculine and bold etc and is very confusing.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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This isn't a comprehensive study by any means, but once I've been with a girl for a couple of weeks I especially notice they like me to be quite manly.
I think they like trying to enlighten me to modern day PCness while I play caveman just a little bit. I don't know if acting slighly HOMO'd works in the PU, but I definitely wouldn't want to keep doing that for any length of time with the same woman.
Back in my SBAFC(super below AFC), I had this girl really hooked. I started acting like a wuss because I thought that's what men were supposed to do when "in love". In a short time, she totally hated it. She ended up dumping me a year later for being a big wuss. I didn't get it back then. Even though it should have been sooooo obvious.