"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Here is a clip of Style at his book signing. It is in the Anything Else forum.
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=84048
It isn't of him sarging, but you get to see what he is about. Most people who have seen him in action claim that he accels in the 'under the radar' approach. The video also has our very own 007 & Animal Crackers doing 'just for fun' approaches. They plan on putting up serious effort approaches soon. I for one, am looking forward to those.
Also, here is an excellent resource for some of Style's posts (and others).
http://www.bristollair.com/methods/authors/style/
Hope this helps.
This is true of Mystery and Ross Jeffries too. Even DeAngelo has a non-threatening presence. Generally speaking, gay men are often very desireable to women.
Celebrity wise, you have guys like Johnny Depp, Jude Law and David Beckham, who have this same non-threatening quality, which women seem to adore.
This contradicts some major points this site teaches about being masculine and bold etc and is very confusing.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
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This isn't a comprehensive study by any means, but once I've been with a girl for a couple of weeks I especially notice they like me to be quite manly.
I think they like trying to enlighten me to modern day PCness while I play caveman just a little bit. I don't know if acting slighly HOMO'd works in the PU, but I definitely wouldn't want to keep doing that for any length of time with the same woman.
Back in my SBAFC(super below AFC), I had this girl really hooked. I started acting like a wuss because I thought that's what men were supposed to do when "in love". In a short time, she totally hated it. She ended up dumping me a year later for being a big wuss. I didn't get it back then. Even though it should have been sooooo obvious.