"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Peacebewithyou

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Hey guys,

Need advice on clothing.

I was planning on wearing light khakis with a dark blue and grey sweater, brown belt, and brown shoes at this ceremony I have to attend.

Does this sound like a decent combo?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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This is just my 2 cents....

It might be too much of a contrast between dark on the top and light on the bottom. I tend to think of lighter color tops with khakis but that's me.

I would wear that sweater with black slacks. (Then black belt and black shoes.)

Of course, climate is a factor. I live where it's cold so we wear dark colors this time of year. (Actually I wear them all year lol.)
 

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How about light khakis with a blue, brown, and yellow striped button down under a dark blue sweater, brown belt, and brown shoes?

I really want to bust out the brown belt and brown shoes.

Also, I might just save the dark grey and blue sweater for the combo you have advised Mike.
 

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It sounds doable as long as the sweater isn't TOO dark.

You know how some navy blue clothing is so dark that you have to look at it in the light to tell if it's black or blue? Obviously, you want to avoid that shade with khakis lol. Otherwise, you are probably ok.

Brown shoes and brown belt are perfect for the khakis. No disagreement there. Although the belt style and color is moot because sweaters are always untucked and tend to cover up the belt. But defintely rock the brown shoes.
 
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