"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Peacebewithyou

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Hey guys,

Need advice on clothing.

I was planning on wearing light khakis with a dark blue and grey sweater, brown belt, and brown shoes at this ceremony I have to attend.

Does this sound like a decent combo?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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This is just my 2 cents....

It might be too much of a contrast between dark on the top and light on the bottom. I tend to think of lighter color tops with khakis but that's me.

I would wear that sweater with black slacks. (Then black belt and black shoes.)

Of course, climate is a factor. I live where it's cold so we wear dark colors this time of year. (Actually I wear them all year lol.)
 

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How about light khakis with a blue, brown, and yellow striped button down under a dark blue sweater, brown belt, and brown shoes?

I really want to bust out the brown belt and brown shoes.

Also, I might just save the dark grey and blue sweater for the combo you have advised Mike.
 

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It sounds doable as long as the sweater isn't TOO dark.

You know how some navy blue clothing is so dark that you have to look at it in the light to tell if it's black or blue? Obviously, you want to avoid that shade with khakis lol. Otherwise, you are probably ok.

Brown shoes and brown belt are perfect for the khakis. No disagreement there. Although the belt style and color is moot because sweaters are always untucked and tend to cover up the belt. But defintely rock the brown shoes.
 
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