"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
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lol if you want your wallet to die and get hated on by everyone thereTekniq said:
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^ My new style home. Huge in-depth articles on men's fashion, and a great community that I participate in.
http://thesartorialist.blogspot.com/
^ The guy takes pictures of uniquely stylish individuals he sees on the street. Great to see what's out there, and to get ideas on what might work for your own style.
http://men.style.com/gq/fashion
^ Slideshows of looks for you to go through
http://men.style.com/gq/fashion/styleguy
^ Bucketloads of little style tips
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Definetly agree with the poster above on this site. I frequent it - has some nice tips with a good archive.
Bro to get started,look at what other guys are up to in terms of style who ARE popular.Then try leaning more towards that style but have your own variation.For me I tend to go sporty.
DismantleRepair
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How are the Kinowear articles not helpful? They advocate finding our own style - the earlier a guy starts doing this, the better.619joe said:Guys this is the high school forum,alot of those links except ike kinowear dont really help the guy out much....
Bro to get started,look at what other guys are up to in terms of style who ARE popular.Then try leaning more towards that style but have your own variation.For me I tend to go sporty.
This is why I disagree with your advice to copy the style of the popular crowd. Don't change yourself to please other people. Change yourself so you're happy with who YOU are.
You misread his post. He said that kinowear articles are the only ones helpful, the other ones are useless. He said: "lot of those links except ike kinowear dont really help the guy out much"DismantleRepair said:How are the Kinowear articles not helpful? They advocate finding our own style - the earlier a guy starts doing this, the better.
This is why I disagree with your advice to copy the style of the popular crowd. Don't change yourself to please other people. Change yourself so you're happy with who YOU are.
And frankly, I agree with 619joe. To be honest, that site should have everything you need and it's constantly being updated with more information. So just use that, end of discussion.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
DismantleRepair
Don Juan
Oops! That "ike" threw me off and I didn't see the "except".Axcell said:You misread his post. He said that kinowear articles are the only ones helpful, the other ones are useless. He said: "lot of those links except ike kinowear dont really help the guy out much"
And frankly, I agree with 619joe. To be honest, that site should have everything you need and it's constantly being updated with more information. So just use that, end of discussion.
But what Im saying is look at how old those guys are in the other links.This is a HS forum which means the dude is in HS.You will look like your trying WAY too hard dressing like that its more for guys in like early to mid 20's.
Although finding what YOU like the best is important,then look at "goth" people.They found their own style they love no matter what,yet why do they get frowned upon?Me and this hot girl in math used to rag on this wierd goth kid with long hair and safety pins all over his trenchcoat.He probably is happy with himself,but does that help him out in the long run?I mean I guess what Im saying is that you have to have a balance
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