"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Stupid women, Blank stares

diplomatic_lie

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Don't you hate it when you say something, and someone gives you a blank stare because they don't understand it? Even worse, you make light of the matter, and they keep up the blank "duh, whuh does dat mean?" stare, because they STILL don't get it?

Usually the blank stare is accompanied by a "What?".

And how on earth do you respond to those el stupido stares? Explaining what I said just seems so stupid, so I usually end up walking away, unless she actually asks for an explaination.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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flexion_

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Just dumb down your conversation a bit when you first meet someone and step it up as you guage their conversational level. Women of all conversational levels like sex.

If you go at someone all histrionic to start then they often will give you a blank stare like that...
 

bootlegger

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I always chalk that up to their ignorance.

Or just that they are so intimidated by me, they don't know how to act.

Sometimes it means you are out of your league (yes, you need to find a hotter girl)
 

icecreaman

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Lower your conversation level so you can get in her pants. LOL!!!!!:D
 
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