"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Stupid women, Blank stares

diplomatic_lie

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Don't you hate it when you say something, and someone gives you a blank stare because they don't understand it? Even worse, you make light of the matter, and they keep up the blank "duh, whuh does dat mean?" stare, because they STILL don't get it?

Usually the blank stare is accompanied by a "What?".

And how on earth do you respond to those el stupido stares? Explaining what I said just seems so stupid, so I usually end up walking away, unless she actually asks for an explaination.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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flexion_

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Just dumb down your conversation a bit when you first meet someone and step it up as you guage their conversational level. Women of all conversational levels like sex.

If you go at someone all histrionic to start then they often will give you a blank stare like that...
 

bootlegger

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I always chalk that up to their ignorance.

Or just that they are so intimidated by me, they don't know how to act.

Sometimes it means you are out of your league (yes, you need to find a hotter girl)
 

icecreaman

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Lower your conversation level so you can get in her pants. LOL!!!!!:D
 
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