"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Stupid warning message

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I hate getting this:

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It happens quite often. It pisses me off when I write a post, hit "post reply" and this piece of **** comes up. What the hell is going on?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Me think's people are opening like 20 windows at a time so they don't lose their train of thought about what they want to read.

I posted this error as well.

Hope yours gets more publicity.
 
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The host needs a new server.
 
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this is the second thread in a week about this, so its got to be getting worse.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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What is the deal with it. It hadn't really come up until a few weeks ago, and now I get it occasionally. It is kind of frustrating when you type a long post and that thing pops up and you lose what you were wroking on.
 
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same here

I hate it. I was actually going to post about it tonight but you beat me to it.

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**** 5 minutes to open the thread another two to actually post it

BUMP!!!

please will mod notice this thread... *clicks report post to moderator*
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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i run into it alot as well
 
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Originally posted by Boner da Stoner
Me think's people are opening like 20 windows at a time so they don't lose their train of thought about what they want to read.

I posted this error as well.

Hope yours gets more publicity.
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:mad: Your post had the whole board get shut down because of vincent posting that rediculous snake!!
 
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Originally posted by Boner da Stoner
**** 5 minutes to open the thread another two to actually post it

BUMP!!!

please will mod notice this thread... *clicks report post to moderator*
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Nothing we can do about it. We talked to Allen and got the "I'll look into it," reply. Good enough for us. If it gets much worse, I'm sure he'll do something like he did last time. Remember when you had to wait 10 minutes for it to load?
 
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Originally posted by TheVirtualMind
Nothing we can do about it. We talked to Allen and got the "I'll look into it," reply. Good enough for us. If it gets much worse, I'm sure he'll do something like he did last time. Remember when you had to wait 10 minutes for it to load?
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Yeah I've been through that... well tell Allen that it is a regular basis, it occurs multiple times throughout the day.

It is not OUR internet connections, it's not specific to any time of day, and it's not dependant upon how many people are online :)

Don't take me wrong I love this site, and I still have hundreds if not thousands of threads that I still want to read, but damnit that I am writing a post or searching for posts and get up from the computer to come back and forget which post I was looking for.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Originally posted by Boner da Stoner
please will mod notice this thread... *clicks report post to moderator*
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Do not abuse the "Report this post to a moderator" button! Repeat violations will result in disciplinary action!

The administrator is aware of the problem and looking at options for eliminating it that don't involve advertisements or fees like other sites have.
 
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