Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Stupid warning message

Desdinova

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I hate getting this:

Warning: mysql_connect(): User so2suave_sosuave has already more than 'max_user_connections' active connections in /home/so2suave/public_html/forum/admin/db_mysql.php on line 40



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It happens quite often. It pisses me off when I write a post, hit "post reply" and this piece of **** comes up. What the hell is going on?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Boner da Stoner

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Me think's people are opening like 20 windows at a time so they don't lose their train of thought about what they want to read.

I posted this error as well.

Hope yours gets more publicity.
 

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The host needs a new server.
 

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this is the second thread in a week about this, so its got to be getting worse.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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What is the deal with it. It hadn't really come up until a few weeks ago, and now I get it occasionally. It is kind of frustrating when you type a long post and that thing pops up and you lose what you were wroking on.
 

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same here

I hate it. I was actually going to post about it tonight but you beat me to it.

comic_relief
 

Boner da Stoner

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**** 5 minutes to open the thread another two to actually post it

BUMP!!!

please will mod notice this thread... *clicks report post to moderator*
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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i run into it alot as well
 

Mr. Unique

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Originally posted by Boner da Stoner
Me think's people are opening like 20 windows at a time so they don't lose their train of thought about what they want to read.

I posted this error as well.

Hope yours gets more publicity.
:mad: Your post had the whole board get shut down because of vincent posting that rediculous snake!!
 

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Originally posted by Boner da Stoner
**** 5 minutes to open the thread another two to actually post it

BUMP!!!

please will mod notice this thread... *clicks report post to moderator*
Nothing we can do about it. We talked to Allen and got the "I'll look into it," reply. Good enough for us. If it gets much worse, I'm sure he'll do something like he did last time. Remember when you had to wait 10 minutes for it to load?
 

Boner da Stoner

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Originally posted by TheVirtualMind
Nothing we can do about it. We talked to Allen and got the "I'll look into it," reply. Good enough for us. If it gets much worse, I'm sure he'll do something like he did last time. Remember when you had to wait 10 minutes for it to load?
Yeah I've been through that... well tell Allen that it is a regular basis, it occurs multiple times throughout the day.

It is not OUR internet connections, it's not specific to any time of day, and it's not dependant upon how many people are online :)

Don't take me wrong I love this site, and I still have hundreds if not thousands of threads that I still want to read, but damnit that I am writing a post or searching for posts and get up from the computer to come back and forget which post I was looking for.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Originally posted by Boner da Stoner
please will mod notice this thread... *clicks report post to moderator*
Do not abuse the "Report this post to a moderator" button! Repeat violations will result in disciplinary action!

The administrator is aware of the problem and looking at options for eliminating it that don't involve advertisements or fees like other sites have.
 
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