"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Stupid warning message

Desdinova

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I hate getting this:

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It happens quite often. It pisses me off when I write a post, hit "post reply" and this piece of **** comes up. What the hell is going on?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Boner da Stoner

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Me think's people are opening like 20 windows at a time so they don't lose their train of thought about what they want to read.

I posted this error as well.

Hope yours gets more publicity.
 

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The host needs a new server.
 

penkitten

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this is the second thread in a week about this, so its got to be getting worse.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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What is the deal with it. It hadn't really come up until a few weeks ago, and now I get it occasionally. It is kind of frustrating when you type a long post and that thing pops up and you lose what you were wroking on.
 

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same here

I hate it. I was actually going to post about it tonight but you beat me to it.

comic_relief
 

Boner da Stoner

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**** 5 minutes to open the thread another two to actually post it

BUMP!!!

please will mod notice this thread... *clicks report post to moderator*
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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piranha45

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i run into it alot as well
 

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Originally posted by Boner da Stoner
Me think's people are opening like 20 windows at a time so they don't lose their train of thought about what they want to read.

I posted this error as well.

Hope yours gets more publicity.
:mad: Your post had the whole board get shut down because of vincent posting that rediculous snake!!
 

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Originally posted by Boner da Stoner
**** 5 minutes to open the thread another two to actually post it

BUMP!!!

please will mod notice this thread... *clicks report post to moderator*
Nothing we can do about it. We talked to Allen and got the "I'll look into it," reply. Good enough for us. If it gets much worse, I'm sure he'll do something like he did last time. Remember when you had to wait 10 minutes for it to load?
 

Boner da Stoner

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Originally posted by TheVirtualMind
Nothing we can do about it. We talked to Allen and got the "I'll look into it," reply. Good enough for us. If it gets much worse, I'm sure he'll do something like he did last time. Remember when you had to wait 10 minutes for it to load?
Yeah I've been through that... well tell Allen that it is a regular basis, it occurs multiple times throughout the day.

It is not OUR internet connections, it's not specific to any time of day, and it's not dependant upon how many people are online :)

Don't take me wrong I love this site, and I still have hundreds if not thousands of threads that I still want to read, but damnit that I am writing a post or searching for posts and get up from the computer to come back and forget which post I was looking for.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Originally posted by Boner da Stoner
please will mod notice this thread... *clicks report post to moderator*
Do not abuse the "Report this post to a moderator" button! Repeat violations will result in disciplinary action!

The administrator is aware of the problem and looking at options for eliminating it that don't involve advertisements or fees like other sites have.
 
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