Yea so I was an idiot and asked this girl through a text message. I just wanted to be able to make the plans ahead of time for this weekend since I didn't get a break at work and couldn't call her I figured I would just text her around 8 or so. She didn't write back so far and I will see her at work tomorrow but I dont know if I should say something about it or keep quiet and act like nothing happened. Im sure she got it because I text my friend right after and she wrote right back. Overall just a dumb move by me and I think I should have just found a way to call her.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
stupid move....asked her out through a text message
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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haha..i'm a girl..and I found about 59 posts on here bout me, and Uhh that move was DUMB, happened to me before, yeah I didn't answer It was awkward and a reall bad way to ask
My Name is Nobody
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Call her now. What's up CrazyB?
Francisco d'Anconia
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Bet'cha won't do that again... 
You'll need to confront her directly though. If you don't you'll seem a bit more wussy. She'll think that you can only talk to her face to face if it's business related, otherwise you will depend on only texting her in hopes that she'll respond.
You'll need to confront her directly though. If you don't you'll seem a bit more wussy. She'll think that you can only talk to her face to face if it's business related, otherwise you will depend on only texting her in hopes that she'll respond.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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El Don said:
Why is it too late? It's been like an hour since you made the original post.
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Man up and call her now... it's your best chance I believe.
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NEVER ask for the first few dates over text message. nuff said!El Don said:
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
knglerxt
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CrazyBeautiful said:
What's so dumb about it? As long as you know the girl, what's the big deal? All the girl would have to do is text him back and say "Ok. Call me and let's set up a time and place."
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you know...... Before I used to think that somehow everything was my fault. That because I did X=Y+1 so Y-X+z didnt happen.
it is not like that.
dont make it so complicated, remeber before the DJ "bible" (just the word makes it sound like a cult)
these are guidelines to so you have the right mindset, so you wont come off as needy. SO you have more success rate but at the end of the day, even if you do a 100% Dj moves, it comes down to raw ATTRACTION.
I by no means have found the best way that suits me, but i have figured out this much " if she is attracted to you, she will make it easy for you"
girls are not there waiting to reject you over a simple mistake or way of asking out, or right words. IF girl A wants to go out with guy B, no matter how guy B ask girl A to go out she will. through e-mail, through a letter, through phone, face to face. IT DOESNT MATTER, she will do it.
if girl A doesnt want to go out with guy B there is no dam way guy B will ever have the right "moves" even if she agrees for some reason she will FIND something to reject him for.
it is not like that.
dont make it so complicated, remeber before the DJ "bible" (just the word makes it sound like a cult)
these are guidelines to so you have the right mindset, so you wont come off as needy. SO you have more success rate but at the end of the day, even if you do a 100% Dj moves, it comes down to raw ATTRACTION.
I by no means have found the best way that suits me, but i have figured out this much " if she is attracted to you, she will make it easy for you"
girls are not there waiting to reject you over a simple mistake or way of asking out, or right words. IF girl A wants to go out with guy B, no matter how guy B ask girl A to go out she will. through e-mail, through a letter, through phone, face to face. IT DOESNT MATTER, she will do it.
if girl A doesnt want to go out with guy B there is no dam way guy B will ever have the right "moves" even if she agrees for some reason she will FIND something to reject him for.
Gangster Of Love
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No big deal. As long as you are not making it so obvious that it means a lot to you. Just be prepared for her to ask you, "What did you do last night.", better have a good answer. Doesn't matter if it is true or not, you must have a good answer that shows it was no big deal if she didn't respond, since you went ahead and did your thing.
CrunchyNut
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No my good man, all those posts were about her. She is, in fact, not just a girl. She is the very essence of girlness. All chicks are just instantiations of her. Cough.
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