"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Stupid girl not understanding she's a square and I want her to succeed.

AC/DC

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I have a friend named Veronica. She's crazy depressive. She's definitely not happy inside, and she tries to act like she's happy when she really aint. So I decided to make it my business and I told you "You needa relax, quit taking insults seriously, quit takin jokes literally. You say you have friends and you're very social but why do you always sit home talkin to me on the phone when you should be out making friends and ditching your old, backstabbing ones so you'll quit whining about them?"

She does NOT get it. She says "oh you're trying to change me" then she goes "why are people so shallow, why can't they judge me on who I am not what I wear?" (That one came cuz I told her to quit being a square when you can be so much more.

How can I make this stupid girl see the light? She doesn't deserve to suffer, what can I do?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I've been in your situation many times, and all you can really do is be positive around her and slightly encourage her to more social etc, but support her. If there's a party or something, invite her to come with you and introduce her to people.

You can't overdo it, you just kind of have to give them a little nudge. Don't be suprised if she never gets over it though.
 

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Originally posted by Canadianpimpology
Get a BJ.
**** up.

AC/DC, if this chick is close to you, as she seems to be, I suggest you just act like the happiest guy on earth. Don't push her to be happy, just show her. If she is not motivated, it will have no effect on her. Take her to a carnaval. Take her to something fun and show her to the time of her life!

Thats what I did and it worked. Simply suggesting and trying to show them the light doesn't work. You gotta make em feel the light.
 

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Yes, shine the light in her eyes.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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You can't help someone that won't help themself.
 

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BBB your posts are awesome, they remind us that we live in a real world where people are starving, dying, depressed, etc while we're so terribly worried about who to bang tonight. Preach on amigo!
 
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