The plates get cleared and the silence lands like a brick. You can feel her waiting. Your brain offers up your commute, your job, the weather — topics that have ended more second dates than bad breath.
Here's what most guys never learn: women hand out free conversational material all night long. Tiny clues about what they actually want to discuss. Catch them and you never run out of things to say — because she's telling you what to say next.
Rule 4 of the "22 Rules" trains your ear to catch every single one.
Ummm no,Originally posted by MysteryWoman
My friend blu are you a girl?
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
But then I could say that all the guys who hang out on line are the computer nerds that wear glasses who no girl ever wanted to touch at school.Originally posted by myfriendblu
Ummm no,
but it has been my experience, vast experience, that women who attention whor online, like your doing, often are the type that aren't attractive enough to do it in real life.
Usually real life attention whors are 8's and above. Why don't you post a pic of yourself and we can all see if you got what it takes?
Yawn.....Just as I thought.