You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Ummm no,Originally posted by MysteryWoman
My friend blu are you a girl?
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
But then I could say that all the guys who hang out on line are the computer nerds that wear glasses who no girl ever wanted to touch at school.Originally posted by myfriendblu
Ummm no,
but it has been my experience, vast experience, that women who attention whor online, like your doing, often are the type that aren't attractive enough to do it in real life.
Usually real life attention whors are 8's and above. Why don't you post a pic of yourself and we can all see if you got what it takes?
Yawn.....Just as I thought.