I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Ummm no,Originally posted by MysteryWoman
My friend blu are you a girl?
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
But then I could say that all the guys who hang out on line are the computer nerds that wear glasses who no girl ever wanted to touch at school.Originally posted by myfriendblu
Ummm no,
but it has been my experience, vast experience, that women who attention whor online, like your doing, often are the type that aren't attractive enough to do it in real life.
Usually real life attention whors are 8's and above. Why don't you post a pic of yourself and we can all see if you got what it takes?
Yawn.....Just as I thought.