"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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ill keep it simple....there is this "girl" ive been hanging out with and people keep on thinking we are bf/gf. For some reason, she keeps telling me that people ask her if we are dating and she feels the need to tell me. When she tells me this, im clueless to a C&F response. It happened again last night and the best response i could have thought of was.."heh..thats cute" with a big smile.

What do you guys think i could/should say?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Tell her that if she plays her cards right, she might have a chance.

I have no idea if that was even close to what you're looking for.
 
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Originally posted by Slickster
"Tell them that we're not dating, just having sex"
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HAHAH..nice one man. thanks. im think im able to spin it and use it various ways. thansks
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I,m probably one of the last guy that should give this kind of advice.
Since I have zero experience with dating:(

But,I think you should ask yourself,how you fell about her and if you want to be her boyfriend.
If so,next time she ask you,you should ask her"do you want to be?"
If she say yes,and that`s what you want,good for you.
But that`s just what I would do.:D
 
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Hybrid2, thats quite AFC, I really dont recommend what hybrid just said.
 
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Originally posted by Hybrid2
I,m probably one of the last guy that should give this kind of advice.
Since I have zero experience with dating:(

But,I think you should ask yourself,how you fell about her and if you want to be her boyfriend.
If so,next time she ask you,you should ask her"do you want to be?"
If she say yes,and that`s what you want,good for you.
But that`s just what I would do.:D
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yeah dude. thats not a good response.

by saying something like: "do you want to be?" will put all the power in her corner. its like you are waiting her for to make a move rather than you doing something.

you should never say something that will give her power in the decision. you would be better off trying to say something that makes her look like the aggressor and you trying to act like the innocent fawn...something like:

"hey hey now.....i know that you are deeply attracted to me...but id like to take things slowly...whatever happened to the good ol days of getting to know someone first!?" (with a big smile on your face so she cant tell if you are serious or joking around)
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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