"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Study Vs. Sarge

ROOKIE OF THE YEAR

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I really need some experts opinions. I'm 22 years old and I'm in college. In order to graduate, I need to study and put alot of effort to my major which is engineering. However, I'm a virgin and I really want to improving my dating and sarging skills as well. But we all know this takes time and effort, especially for dating noobs like me.
I don't want to get distracted between college degree and dating. I know education is important, but I'm 22 years old. I'M GETTING OLD.

How do I balance this out?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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macking

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Man .. you got 7 days in a week. At least go out twice, start to make approaches. Strength the social circle.

If you make the time table you gonna have as much time as you want.

Every guru that I listened said that you must have another obligation except sarge. You have an important one .
 

Stéphane

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If you think studying is hard, wait that you start working..
 

BadsnakeUK

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Can we be realistic for a moment and put things in perspective? There are more important things in life than women and your career is one of them. Study first, and study hard. Its only a short amount of time you need to put this work in for, and the results will be with you for life. After that, by all means sarge away and fill your boots, you've earned it.

You will also find that having a well-paid and rewarding job will increase your overall happiness and self-esteem, which will reflect on your pick up skills in the future. You think you'll get that flipping burgers?
 

Al Moh.

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You should be able to do both, just focusing on one aspect in life is never good, study hard for your degree but in your free time you can go sarging. I made the experience that you can fit everything into your time table if you really want to.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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wolf116

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Everyone who goes to collage has time for girls, what makes you so special?
All you need to do is go to collage party's and get tipsy.

Being good with women is more important to me then money, who cares if you even fail a few subjects along the way, this is the easiest time in your life to meet girls, take advantage of it. Sh!t take an extra year to pass everything just so you get more time to live the good life before you get into the real world.
 

Warrior74

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Finish your studying then go play. Work first, play second.
 

jcap

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wolf116 said:
Everyone who goes to collage has time for girls, what makes you so special?
All you need to do is go to collage party's and get tipsy.

Being good with women is more important to me then money, who cares if you even fail a few subjects along the way, this is the easiest time in your life to meet girls, take advantage of it. Sh!t take an extra year to pass everything just so you get more time to live the good life before you get into the real world.

collage?
LOL I don't usually correct spelling like a nitpicking retard, but COLLAGE?
LOL
COLLAGE?
AHAHAHAH
COLLAGE?
EDMUCATION?
FROM A COLLAGE?
TO GET A DEGWEE?

I WANT TO GO TOCOLLAGE!

hahahahaha
 

Effington

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I think it's amusing that you have to ask this question. Get/keep your grades up! You are in college to get an education and a career, and you pay thousands of dollars for it.

It's unfortunate if you need to spend all your time studying to keep your grades up, but if that's what it takes, that is what you have to do. Engineering is a tough major, but it pays off later.

I am sure if you use your time well, you will find a way to get out once in awhile and have some fun.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Telos

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jcap said:
collage?
LOL I don't usually correct spelling like a nitpicking retard, but COLLAGE?
LOL
COLLAGE?
AHAHAHAH
COLLAGE?
EDMUCATION?
FROM A COLLAGE?
TO GET A DEGWEE?

I WANT TO GO TOCOLLAGE!

hahahahaha
where do i sign up to gain edmucation? can i buy your edmucation? i dont have time for study or to look at books. btw how do i get beautiful woman to love me? i can lern from collage? thxxx~
 

Technical1

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hey buddy,

I had the same problem. Couldnt understand how to do sarging and still work alot at the same time without going insane.

I found the solution-idea at approachanxiety.com: basically you say that you are going to approach 1 girl a day. Just one. Just approach her, talk to her, maybe email close if you feel like it/if things work out. Just make sure to always do one a day and after weeks/months you will see results. I've been doing it for three weeks and its wonderful. It only takes a maximum half an hour a day.
 
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