“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Study Vs. Sarge

ROOKIE OF THE YEAR

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I really need some experts opinions. I'm 22 years old and I'm in college. In order to graduate, I need to study and put alot of effort to my major which is engineering. However, I'm a virgin and I really want to improving my dating and sarging skills as well. But we all know this takes time and effort, especially for dating noobs like me.
I don't want to get distracted between college degree and dating. I know education is important, but I'm 22 years old. I'M GETTING OLD.

How do I balance this out?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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macking

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Man .. you got 7 days in a week. At least go out twice, start to make approaches. Strength the social circle.

If you make the time table you gonna have as much time as you want.

Every guru that I listened said that you must have another obligation except sarge. You have an important one .
 

Stéphane

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If you think studying is hard, wait that you start working..
 

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Can we be realistic for a moment and put things in perspective? There are more important things in life than women and your career is one of them. Study first, and study hard. Its only a short amount of time you need to put this work in for, and the results will be with you for life. After that, by all means sarge away and fill your boots, you've earned it.

You will also find that having a well-paid and rewarding job will increase your overall happiness and self-esteem, which will reflect on your pick up skills in the future. You think you'll get that flipping burgers?
 

Al Moh.

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You should be able to do both, just focusing on one aspect in life is never good, study hard for your degree but in your free time you can go sarging. I made the experience that you can fit everything into your time table if you really want to.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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wolf116

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Everyone who goes to collage has time for girls, what makes you so special?
All you need to do is go to collage party's and get tipsy.

Being good with women is more important to me then money, who cares if you even fail a few subjects along the way, this is the easiest time in your life to meet girls, take advantage of it. Sh!t take an extra year to pass everything just so you get more time to live the good life before you get into the real world.
 

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Finish your studying then go play. Work first, play second.
 

jcap

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wolf116 said:
Everyone who goes to collage has time for girls, what makes you so special?
All you need to do is go to collage party's and get tipsy.

Being good with women is more important to me then money, who cares if you even fail a few subjects along the way, this is the easiest time in your life to meet girls, take advantage of it. Sh!t take an extra year to pass everything just so you get more time to live the good life before you get into the real world.

collage?
LOL I don't usually correct spelling like a nitpicking retard, but COLLAGE?
LOL
COLLAGE?
AHAHAHAH
COLLAGE?
EDMUCATION?
FROM A COLLAGE?
TO GET A DEGWEE?

I WANT TO GO TOCOLLAGE!

hahahahaha
 

Effington

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I think it's amusing that you have to ask this question. Get/keep your grades up! You are in college to get an education and a career, and you pay thousands of dollars for it.

It's unfortunate if you need to spend all your time studying to keep your grades up, but if that's what it takes, that is what you have to do. Engineering is a tough major, but it pays off later.

I am sure if you use your time well, you will find a way to get out once in awhile and have some fun.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Telos

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jcap said:
collage?
LOL I don't usually correct spelling like a nitpicking retard, but COLLAGE?
LOL
COLLAGE?
AHAHAHAH
COLLAGE?
EDMUCATION?
FROM A COLLAGE?
TO GET A DEGWEE?

I WANT TO GO TOCOLLAGE!

hahahahaha
where do i sign up to gain edmucation? can i buy your edmucation? i dont have time for study or to look at books. btw how do i get beautiful woman to love me? i can lern from collage? thxxx~
 

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hey buddy,

I had the same problem. Couldnt understand how to do sarging and still work alot at the same time without going insane.

I found the solution-idea at approachanxiety.com: basically you say that you are going to approach 1 girl a day. Just one. Just approach her, talk to her, maybe email close if you feel like it/if things work out. Just make sure to always do one a day and after weeks/months you will see results. I've been doing it for three weeks and its wonderful. It only takes a maximum half an hour a day.
 
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