"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Study Vs. Sarge

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I really need some experts opinions. I'm 22 years old and I'm in college. In order to graduate, I need to study and put alot of effort to my major which is engineering. However, I'm a virgin and I really want to improving my dating and sarging skills as well. But we all know this takes time and effort, especially for dating noobs like me.
I don't want to get distracted between college degree and dating. I know education is important, but I'm 22 years old. I'M GETTING OLD.

How do I balance this out?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Man .. you got 7 days in a week. At least go out twice, start to make approaches. Strength the social circle.

If you make the time table you gonna have as much time as you want.

Every guru that I listened said that you must have another obligation except sarge. You have an important one .
 
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If you think studying is hard, wait that you start working..
 
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Can we be realistic for a moment and put things in perspective? There are more important things in life than women and your career is one of them. Study first, and study hard. Its only a short amount of time you need to put this work in for, and the results will be with you for life. After that, by all means sarge away and fill your boots, you've earned it.

You will also find that having a well-paid and rewarding job will increase your overall happiness and self-esteem, which will reflect on your pick up skills in the future. You think you'll get that flipping burgers?
 
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You should be able to do both, just focusing on one aspect in life is never good, study hard for your degree but in your free time you can go sarging. I made the experience that you can fit everything into your time table if you really want to.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Everyone who goes to collage has time for girls, what makes you so special?
All you need to do is go to collage party's and get tipsy.

Being good with women is more important to me then money, who cares if you even fail a few subjects along the way, this is the easiest time in your life to meet girls, take advantage of it. Sh!t take an extra year to pass everything just so you get more time to live the good life before you get into the real world.
 
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Finish your studying then go play. Work first, play second.
 
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wolf116 said:
Everyone who goes to collage has time for girls, what makes you so special?
All you need to do is go to collage party's and get tipsy.

Being good with women is more important to me then money, who cares if you even fail a few subjects along the way, this is the easiest time in your life to meet girls, take advantage of it. Sh!t take an extra year to pass everything just so you get more time to live the good life before you get into the real world.
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collage?
LOL I don't usually correct spelling like a nitpicking retard, but COLLAGE?
LOL
COLLAGE?
AHAHAHAH
COLLAGE?
EDMUCATION?
FROM A COLLAGE?
TO GET A DEGWEE?

I WANT TO GO TOCOLLAGE!

hahahahaha
 
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I think it's amusing that you have to ask this question. Get/keep your grades up! You are in college to get an education and a career, and you pay thousands of dollars for it.

It's unfortunate if you need to spend all your time studying to keep your grades up, but if that's what it takes, that is what you have to do. Engineering is a tough major, but it pays off later.

I am sure if you use your time well, you will find a way to get out once in awhile and have some fun.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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jcap said:
collage?
LOL I don't usually correct spelling like a nitpicking retard, but COLLAGE?
LOL
COLLAGE?
AHAHAHAH
COLLAGE?
EDMUCATION?
FROM A COLLAGE?
TO GET A DEGWEE?

I WANT TO GO TOCOLLAGE!

hahahahaha
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where do i sign up to gain edmucation? can i buy your edmucation? i dont have time for study or to look at books. btw how do i get beautiful woman to love me? i can lern from collage? thxxx~
 
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hey buddy,

I had the same problem. Couldnt understand how to do sarging and still work alot at the same time without going insane.

I found the solution-idea at approachanxiety.com: basically you say that you are going to approach 1 girl a day. Just one. Just approach her, talk to her, maybe email close if you feel like it/if things work out. Just make sure to always do one a day and after weeks/months you will see results. I've been doing it for three weeks and its wonderful. It only takes a maximum half an hour a day.
 
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