logicallefty
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50% HAHA. I bet it's MUCH higher than that!
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Study shows 50% of all women have a backup man they string along (sometimes for years )
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
ImTheDoubleGreatest!
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Not necessarily. It could be that this “backup” guy is also the dude she’s screwing behind her man’s back.
If you would vet better the girls for ltr then most of the problems discussed here will disappear
women can play whatever mind games they want , and as long as you do not take her seriously it will not affect you that much
women can play whatever mind games they want , and as long as you do not take her seriously it will not affect you that much
I think this is another instance of hammed-up red pill outrage at something that is simple biology.
In our ancestral societies, women depended on men for physical protection, resources, and survival. Hence, it was unwise for them to place all their eggs in a single basket. Men frequently died early, premature, sudden, or violent deaths. She and her offspring could then die if there wasn't a contingency plan.
Needier women are more likely to actively cultivate their orbiters into continency plans. More secure women aren't going on happy hour dates with male "friends" in the same manner, but their antennae are always up for alternative mating opportunities. Remember -- women don't need to approach to have opportunities. They just need to have vaginas. They always have options, whether they're single or not.
In our ancestral societies, women depended on men for physical protection, resources, and survival. Hence, it was unwise for them to place all their eggs in a single basket. Men frequently died early, premature, sudden, or violent deaths. She and her offspring could then die if there wasn't a contingency plan.
Needier women are more likely to actively cultivate their orbiters into continency plans. More secure women aren't going on happy hour dates with male "friends" in the same manner, but their antennae are always up for alternative mating opportunities. Remember -- women don't need to approach to have opportunities. They just need to have vaginas. They always have options, whether they're single or not.
It is key for guys to understand that women are not men , and that their mating objectives are different
it is futile to judge a woman based on how you think , as women will never be men
I think the best example is with the feminism . Women will cherry pick whatever is best for them on the moment both from the traditional and the feminism ideology
sure from a guy perspective is wrong , but from a woman perspective it is alright
it is futile to judge a woman based on how you think , as women will never be men
I think the best example is with the feminism . Women will cherry pick whatever is best for them on the moment both from the traditional and the feminism ideology
sure from a guy perspective is wrong , but from a woman perspective it is alright
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Furthermore , I am talking with a girl that is quite ugly , and I think that she is also quite depressed . She is trying to mask this
the funny thing is that she knows that I am way more attractive than her , but despite this she still tries to look cool and stuff like that . But when I push back a bit , she retreats and starts saying sorry and bla bla
what it is to understand from this is that all women more or less act the same , and the most important thing for a guy is to push things towards sex , and not focus on talking with her for the sake of talking
the she either starts adding value to your life , either not . If she adds value then you can think about an ltr , and if she is not adding value to your life you either booty call her from time to time , either you move on to the next victim and forget about it
things are simple , do not complicate them by thinking too much
the funny thing is that she knows that I am way more attractive than her , but despite this she still tries to look cool and stuff like that . But when I push back a bit , she retreats and starts saying sorry and bla bla
what it is to understand from this is that all women more or less act the same , and the most important thing for a guy is to push things towards sex , and not focus on talking with her for the sake of talking
the she either starts adding value to your life , either not . If she adds value then you can think about an ltr , and if she is not adding value to your life you either booty call her from time to time , either you move on to the next victim and forget about it
things are simple , do not complicate them by thinking too much
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Some women like that just need to be talked to and kissed on correctly. They can be very grateful..Furthermore , I am talking with a girl that is quite ugly , and I think that she is also quite depressed . She is trying to mask this
the funny thing is that she knows that I am way more attractive than her , but despite this she still tries to look cool and stuff like that . But when I push back a bit , she retreats and starts saying sorry and bla bla
what it is to understand from this is that all women more or less act the same , and the most important thing for a guy is to push things towards sex , and not focus on talking with her for the sake of talking
the she either starts adding value to your life , either not . If she adds value then you can think about an ltr , and if she is not adding value to your life you either booty call her from time to time , either you move on to the next victim and forget about it
things are simple , do not complicate them by thinking too much
but for sure this should not be your first option when dealing with a woman that has attitude or comes with stupid reasons .
The first option is to ignore her
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Oh if its one whose competitive or disruptive then she's ungrateful
and should be ignored.
I d go with Dash's take. Best way of not caring is being a busy guy. Maybe your the guy who has the best train set ever. Unlikely to get you laid but it's your life your choice. Sh1t I spent a chunk of last night practicing tennis footwork so maybe I am trainset guy. Sad is the guy who doesn't have interests and projects. Need the balance. Both work and women r likely to fuk u over at some point. When that happens u need a reason above pure survival to keep getting out of bed.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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50% seems low, and it's definitely more than one backup. Women, especially these days with texting and so many different social media and messaging apps, are great at multi-tasking when it comes to keeping their bench and farm clubs in the mix.
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They can also be "grateful" for the attention and the ego-boost that comes from socializing with a more attractive man. Some of these women are meant to be kissed-off not on.
mrgoodstuff
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True. A selfish egoic mindset does not tend to be grateful for anything. It tends to be entitled.
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Women and men are different. Women NEED a man, so they need a backup just in case the guy that they're relying on to drag their lazy ass through life leaves them.In today's dating market with the abundance of Simps and Beta males it should come as no surprise that women have backup guys.
NEARLY HALF OF ALL WOMEN HAVE A BACK UP LOVER, STUDY REVEALS | eL CREMA
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
She's not yours, it's just your turn.In today's dating market with the abundance of Simps and Beta males it should come as no surprise that women have backup guys.
NEARLY HALF OF ALL WOMEN HAVE A BACK UP LOVER, STUDY REVEALS | eL CREMA
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Georgepithyou
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Sounds like something a cuckold would say.