logicallefty
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50% HAHA. I bet it's MUCH higher than that!
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Study shows 50% of all women have a backup man they string along (sometimes for years )
- Thread starter Georgepithyou
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
ImTheDoubleGreatest!
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Not necessarily. It could be that this “backup” guy is also the dude she’s screwing behind her man’s back.
If you would vet better the girls for ltr then most of the problems discussed here will disappear
women can play whatever mind games they want , and as long as you do not take her seriously it will not affect you that much
women can play whatever mind games they want , and as long as you do not take her seriously it will not affect you that much
I think this is another instance of hammed-up red pill outrage at something that is simple biology.
In our ancestral societies, women depended on men for physical protection, resources, and survival. Hence, it was unwise for them to place all their eggs in a single basket. Men frequently died early, premature, sudden, or violent deaths. She and her offspring could then die if there wasn't a contingency plan.
Needier women are more likely to actively cultivate their orbiters into continency plans. More secure women aren't going on happy hour dates with male "friends" in the same manner, but their antennae are always up for alternative mating opportunities. Remember -- women don't need to approach to have opportunities. They just need to have vaginas. They always have options, whether they're single or not.
In our ancestral societies, women depended on men for physical protection, resources, and survival. Hence, it was unwise for them to place all their eggs in a single basket. Men frequently died early, premature, sudden, or violent deaths. She and her offspring could then die if there wasn't a contingency plan.
Needier women are more likely to actively cultivate their orbiters into continency plans. More secure women aren't going on happy hour dates with male "friends" in the same manner, but their antennae are always up for alternative mating opportunities. Remember -- women don't need to approach to have opportunities. They just need to have vaginas. They always have options, whether they're single or not.
It is key for guys to understand that women are not men , and that their mating objectives are different
it is futile to judge a woman based on how you think , as women will never be men
I think the best example is with the feminism . Women will cherry pick whatever is best for them on the moment both from the traditional and the feminism ideology
sure from a guy perspective is wrong , but from a woman perspective it is alright
it is futile to judge a woman based on how you think , as women will never be men
I think the best example is with the feminism . Women will cherry pick whatever is best for them on the moment both from the traditional and the feminism ideology
sure from a guy perspective is wrong , but from a woman perspective it is alright
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Furthermore , I am talking with a girl that is quite ugly , and I think that she is also quite depressed . She is trying to mask this
the funny thing is that she knows that I am way more attractive than her , but despite this she still tries to look cool and stuff like that . But when I push back a bit , she retreats and starts saying sorry and bla bla
what it is to understand from this is that all women more or less act the same , and the most important thing for a guy is to push things towards sex , and not focus on talking with her for the sake of talking
the she either starts adding value to your life , either not . If she adds value then you can think about an ltr , and if she is not adding value to your life you either booty call her from time to time , either you move on to the next victim and forget about it
things are simple , do not complicate them by thinking too much
the funny thing is that she knows that I am way more attractive than her , but despite this she still tries to look cool and stuff like that . But when I push back a bit , she retreats and starts saying sorry and bla bla
what it is to understand from this is that all women more or less act the same , and the most important thing for a guy is to push things towards sex , and not focus on talking with her for the sake of talking
the she either starts adding value to your life , either not . If she adds value then you can think about an ltr , and if she is not adding value to your life you either booty call her from time to time , either you move on to the next victim and forget about it
things are simple , do not complicate them by thinking too much
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Some women like that just need to be talked to and kissed on correctly. They can be very grateful..Furthermore , I am talking with a girl that is quite ugly , and I think that she is also quite depressed . She is trying to mask this
the funny thing is that she knows that I am way more attractive than her , but despite this she still tries to look cool and stuff like that . But when I push back a bit , she retreats and starts saying sorry and bla bla
what it is to understand from this is that all women more or less act the same , and the most important thing for a guy is to push things towards sex , and not focus on talking with her for the sake of talking
the she either starts adding value to your life , either not . If she adds value then you can think about an ltr , and if she is not adding value to your life you either booty call her from time to time , either you move on to the next victim and forget about it
things are simple , do not complicate them by thinking too much
but for sure this should not be your first option when dealing with a woman that has attitude or comes with stupid reasons .
The first option is to ignore her
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Oh if its one whose competitive or disruptive then she's ungrateful
and should be ignored.
I d go with Dash's take. Best way of not caring is being a busy guy. Maybe your the guy who has the best train set ever. Unlikely to get you laid but it's your life your choice. Sh1t I spent a chunk of last night practicing tennis footwork so maybe I am trainset guy. Sad is the guy who doesn't have interests and projects. Need the balance. Both work and women r likely to fuk u over at some point. When that happens u need a reason above pure survival to keep getting out of bed.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
OldComeBacker
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50% seems low, and it's definitely more than one backup. Women, especially these days with texting and so many different social media and messaging apps, are great at multi-tasking when it comes to keeping their bench and farm clubs in the mix.
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They can also be "grateful" for the attention and the ego-boost that comes from socializing with a more attractive man. Some of these women are meant to be kissed-off not on.
mrgoodstuff
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True. A selfish egoic mindset does not tend to be grateful for anything. It tends to be entitled.
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Women and men are different. Women NEED a man, so they need a backup just in case the guy that they're relying on to drag their lazy ass through life leaves them.In today's dating market with the abundance of Simps and Beta males it should come as no surprise that women have backup guys.
NEARLY HALF OF ALL WOMEN HAVE A BACK UP LOVER, STUDY REVEALS | eL CREMA
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
She's not yours, it's just your turn.In today's dating market with the abundance of Simps and Beta males it should come as no surprise that women have backup guys.
NEARLY HALF OF ALL WOMEN HAVE A BACK UP LOVER, STUDY REVEALS | eL CREMA
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Georgepithyou
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Sounds like something a cuckold would say.