"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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study........date?

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Waitwaitwaitwait here...WHAT happened Friday??

You were studying with her Friday? And you didn't close??

She was looking at you, acting jittery, and instead of closing the deal, you just stared at her creepily??

Dude, you're in college. Get the "dating" paradigm out of your head. You don't need to be "dating" a girl to have sex with her. Maybe she likes you and wants to hook up with you but doesn't want a committed boyfriend...ever think of that? By forcing her into the "date" mentality, you probably just pushed her away. Tried to make it all stuffy and formal and official instead of just having FUN with it.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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That is exactly what I dont want. I'd rather a relationship than the quick hook up/sex part. Sex is cool and all, but if it is with someone you dont really care about it feels kinda empty and worthless to me. Just my opinion though. I doubt she was just after that though, I think she was partially interested but lost it at some point.

I did close, we made plans to go out on Sunday and possibly monday.
 

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Through some unrelated searches I've found the answers to a couple of them.


Still not sure on AFC as I forget, but I found a list on another site through a link in here. Thanks though :).

I've got to see this chick in an hour now ><. I wonder how it will go.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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AFC = average fvcking chump (basically a loser who's not DJ)
DJ = don jaun
LTR = long term relationship
C&F = ****y and funny
EC = eye contact

cant think of anymore right now
 
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