"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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study........date?

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Waitwaitwaitwait here...WHAT happened Friday??

You were studying with her Friday? And you didn't close??

She was looking at you, acting jittery, and instead of closing the deal, you just stared at her creepily??

Dude, you're in college. Get the "dating" paradigm out of your head. You don't need to be "dating" a girl to have sex with her. Maybe she likes you and wants to hook up with you but doesn't want a committed boyfriend...ever think of that? By forcing her into the "date" mentality, you probably just pushed her away. Tried to make it all stuffy and formal and official instead of just having FUN with it.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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That is exactly what I dont want. I'd rather a relationship than the quick hook up/sex part. Sex is cool and all, but if it is with someone you dont really care about it feels kinda empty and worthless to me. Just my opinion though. I doubt she was just after that though, I think she was partially interested but lost it at some point.

I did close, we made plans to go out on Sunday and possibly monday.
 
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Through some unrelated searches I've found the answers to a couple of them.


Still not sure on AFC as I forget, but I found a list on another site through a link in here. Thanks though :).

I've got to see this chick in an hour now ><. I wonder how it will go.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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AFC = average fvcking chump (basically a loser who's not DJ)
DJ = don jaun
LTR = long term relationship
C&F = ****y and funny
EC = eye contact

cant think of anymore right now
 
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