"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Student buys 900 Valentine's Day carnations, one for each girl at school

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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I was going to give him credit for making 900 approaches, but I read he enlisted 20 volunteers to pass them out. It also says he has a girlfriend who "doesn't mind." So he's probably wasting his time on all fronts.

An easy way I've discovered to get women's attention at the grocery store is to pick up a pre-made bouquet from the floral department and walk around the store with it while shopping. A large percentage of them will notice me when I do this, some longer than others. Also makes a great conversation piece when I put them in my cart . . . I just put them back when I'm done shopping most of the time.
 

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We had that in my school today too. I thought it was pathetic when I saw semi decent girls walking around with like 4 or 5 of them.

Pardon my French, but this kid is kind of a *****. At least on the outside anyway, I don't know the context of why he did it, but there aren't a lot of reasons to think of that will not make him a wuss.
 

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Forget the shotgun method he's hit Defcon 5 on the AFC scale and is using the nuclear option. Fling a ton of sh1t against the wall and see what sticks. It's no different than guys messaging every woman on an online dating site hoping for a date. I'm afraid he'll come across as a nice guy and won't actually get any dates from it.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Thought it sounded extremely AFC, clicked on the link...low and behold the dude looks like he's got one one foot in the closet.

Think he's a gay kid in the closet using this and his girl as cover IMO.
 

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I was going to give him credit for making 900 approaches, but I read he enlisted 20 volunteers to pass them out. It also says he has a girlfriend who "doesn't mind." So he's probably wasting his time on all fronts.

An easy way I've discovered to get women's attention at the grocery store is to pick up a pre-made bouquet from the floral department and walk around the store with it while shopping. A large percentage of them will notice me when I do this, some longer than others. Also makes a great conversation piece when I put them in my cart . . . I just put them back when I'm done shopping most of the time.
Perhaps, but maybe he is doing some groundwork for if/when they break up. Since it obviously was done in a non desperate way, I'll bet most of the girls thought it was a "sweet" gesture and probably increased their interest in him, especially since he has a girlfriend already...

This dude could be banging chicks for years off this one move...this could be some high level chess playing right here...
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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It depends on how this is received

Worst case scenario he already has a gf anyway so #Yolo

Best case scenario he gets a few of the 900 interested(a 0.67% success rate is half a dozen girls who are interested) and makes his gf jealous that he could be banging a whole bunch of other girls if he wanted.

Smart move I'd say. Either way he's got his 15 minutes of fame and social proof
 

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It depends on how this is received

Worst case scenario he already has a gf anyway so #Yolo

Best case scenario he gets a few of the 900 interested(a 0.67% success rate is half a dozen girls who are interested) and makes his gf jealous that he could be banging a whole bunch of other girls if he wanted.

Smart move I'd say. Either way he's got his 15 minutes of fame and social proof
Very true but I doubt it. I saw t the guy's profile and it just screamed beta. Then again appearances can be deceiving. Still unlikely though. Lol.
 

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It would seem to me that this lad is lucky that some lesbo-feminist didn't complain about this as a form of sexual harassment.
 

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Very true but I doubt it. I saw t the guy's profile and it just screamed beta. Then again appearances can be deceiving. Still unlikely though. Lol.
It's just such an extreme number that his success rate would have to literally be under .11% for this to not work

Even the biggest Betas you've ever seen or met can probably do better than 1 out of 900 odds
 

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A truly pointless exercise. Giving a gift to someone shows appreciation for that person, handing out something to everyone stinks of buying attention... if everyone gets a flower then it is meaningless to each person getting this. I suppose that are those that will say "Awe... how sweet, what a nice fellow." But deep down we all know this is pathetic and weak.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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