"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Student buys 900 Valentine's Day carnations, one for each girl at school

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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I was going to give him credit for making 900 approaches, but I read he enlisted 20 volunteers to pass them out. It also says he has a girlfriend who "doesn't mind." So he's probably wasting his time on all fronts.

An easy way I've discovered to get women's attention at the grocery store is to pick up a pre-made bouquet from the floral department and walk around the store with it while shopping. A large percentage of them will notice me when I do this, some longer than others. Also makes a great conversation piece when I put them in my cart . . . I just put them back when I'm done shopping most of the time.
 

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We had that in my school today too. I thought it was pathetic when I saw semi decent girls walking around with like 4 or 5 of them.

Pardon my French, but this kid is kind of a *****. At least on the outside anyway, I don't know the context of why he did it, but there aren't a lot of reasons to think of that will not make him a wuss.
 

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Forget the shotgun method he's hit Defcon 5 on the AFC scale and is using the nuclear option. Fling a ton of sh1t against the wall and see what sticks. It's no different than guys messaging every woman on an online dating site hoping for a date. I'm afraid he'll come across as a nice guy and won't actually get any dates from it.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Thought it sounded extremely AFC, clicked on the link...low and behold the dude looks like he's got one one foot in the closet.

Think he's a gay kid in the closet using this and his girl as cover IMO.
 

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I was going to give him credit for making 900 approaches, but I read he enlisted 20 volunteers to pass them out. It also says he has a girlfriend who "doesn't mind." So he's probably wasting his time on all fronts.

An easy way I've discovered to get women's attention at the grocery store is to pick up a pre-made bouquet from the floral department and walk around the store with it while shopping. A large percentage of them will notice me when I do this, some longer than others. Also makes a great conversation piece when I put them in my cart . . . I just put them back when I'm done shopping most of the time.
Perhaps, but maybe he is doing some groundwork for if/when they break up. Since it obviously was done in a non desperate way, I'll bet most of the girls thought it was a "sweet" gesture and probably increased their interest in him, especially since he has a girlfriend already...

This dude could be banging chicks for years off this one move...this could be some high level chess playing right here...
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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It depends on how this is received

Worst case scenario he already has a gf anyway so #Yolo

Best case scenario he gets a few of the 900 interested(a 0.67% success rate is half a dozen girls who are interested) and makes his gf jealous that he could be banging a whole bunch of other girls if he wanted.

Smart move I'd say. Either way he's got his 15 minutes of fame and social proof
 

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It depends on how this is received

Worst case scenario he already has a gf anyway so #Yolo

Best case scenario he gets a few of the 900 interested(a 0.67% success rate is half a dozen girls who are interested) and makes his gf jealous that he could be banging a whole bunch of other girls if he wanted.

Smart move I'd say. Either way he's got his 15 minutes of fame and social proof
Very true but I doubt it. I saw t the guy's profile and it just screamed beta. Then again appearances can be deceiving. Still unlikely though. Lol.
 

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It would seem to me that this lad is lucky that some lesbo-feminist didn't complain about this as a form of sexual harassment.
 

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Very true but I doubt it. I saw t the guy's profile and it just screamed beta. Then again appearances can be deceiving. Still unlikely though. Lol.
It's just such an extreme number that his success rate would have to literally be under .11% for this to not work

Even the biggest Betas you've ever seen or met can probably do better than 1 out of 900 odds
 

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A truly pointless exercise. Giving a gift to someone shows appreciation for that person, handing out something to everyone stinks of buying attention... if everyone gets a flower then it is meaningless to each person getting this. I suppose that are those that will say "Awe... how sweet, what a nice fellow." But deep down we all know this is pathetic and weak.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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