"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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vonbock

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Went to to a party on July 4th at friends house. That friend, very good guy and I really respect. A girl went there, about a 6, but I was very interested in her. Chit chatted with her about 15-20 minutes, and got her number.
Now 2 days later, I meet my friend at get together at a restuarant. Lo and behold that girl is there along with other girls. I ask my friend which one he is after and he said he is trying for the girl I was talking too. He didn't know I was interested in getting to know her. I will back off but what is best way to handle this. I know it will always be bros before hos. Wait until he says that it didn't work out and then try for her? Or tell him that we both go after and let her pick the guy.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Thats, a tough one. I mean you could say I want her too. Execpt i'm already a step ahead of you. :rolleyes: Then, if he fails and you succeed he might be upset....
 

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its not that tricky, its actually kind of fun. first you make it seem like ur helping him get the girl by motivating him to make moves and having it be just a playful competition, then you make him look bland in comparison some way or another, all while telling him stuff like "i had her in my bed last night and she was sucking it so good"
 
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