"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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vonbock

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Went to to a party on July 4th at friends house. That friend, very good guy and I really respect. A girl went there, about a 6, but I was very interested in her. Chit chatted with her about 15-20 minutes, and got her number.
Now 2 days later, I meet my friend at get together at a restuarant. Lo and behold that girl is there along with other girls. I ask my friend which one he is after and he said he is trying for the girl I was talking too. He didn't know I was interested in getting to know her. I will back off but what is best way to handle this. I know it will always be bros before hos. Wait until he says that it didn't work out and then try for her? Or tell him that we both go after and let her pick the guy.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I.A.F.Y.B.

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Thats, a tough one. I mean you could say I want her too. Execpt i'm already a step ahead of you. :rolleyes: Then, if he fails and you succeed he might be upset....
 

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its not that tricky, its actually kind of fun. first you make it seem like ur helping him get the girl by motivating him to make moves and having it be just a playful competition, then you make him look bland in comparison some way or another, all while telling him stuff like "i had her in my bed last night and she was sucking it so good"
 
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